Reflectiv! Moment" Thankfulness comes about for large and small reasons
Occasionally, as we ponder our personal circumstances and start feeling a bit sorry for ourselves it only takes a PRPHQW RU WZR WR ¿JXUH RXW RXU OLYHV DUH GRLQJ MXVW ¿QH thank you very much.
The nightly news from around the world quickly shows us just how lucky we are to live here rather than, VD\ 8NUDLQH RU SDUWV RI 3DNLVWDQ RU LQ ODQGV RI GURXJKW and famine, and even closer to home on the other side of Canada where some dame called Fiona left a devastating calling card on some of the most beautiful parts of our nation.
With Thanksgiving on the horizon, it is the appropriate time to once again ponder our lives and give thanks, or DW OHDVW ¿QG VRPH KXPRXU LQ HYHQWV WKDW PLJKW KDYH EHHQ worse in each of our personal situations.
First, I wish to give thanks for the clear skies and warm temperatures that recently enticed us to go for a Sunday drive in search of a tasty meal at the end of the trip. Some people are unable to travel and I am thankful we are still able to clamber into a vehicle and head off whenever a spark of adventure hits our spirit.
Secondly, I am thankful that our friend Errol used top-quality concrete when years ago he repaired a portion of our driveway. If his workmanship hadn’t been topnotch and his choice of materials above grade, imagine the crack that might have happened when I hit that concrete, landing as I did like a beached whale when my leg went one way and I went another.
As I reclined there in some discomfort, and surely in a bit of shock, I was thankful that Housemate was close E\ DQG VDZ ZKDW KH GHVFULEHV DV P\ ³SUDQFLQJ´ SHUIRUPDQFH 0\ UHFROOHFWLRQ RI HYHQWV ZDV NQRZLQJ WKH IDOO was coming and wondering if it would delay our trip.
I am thankful we had a bit of bonding time after my screams subsided and I made the decision that nothing appeared broken, I could gingerly move each limb, and ¿QDOO\ , FRXOG VLW XS ,Q P\ QRQ H[SHUW PHGLFDO RSLQLRQ there was no need for an ambulance.
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Others should be thankful that I never aspired to be nurse, for the efforts we showed in trying to clean and dress my bleeding and scraped elbow would have left any patient of mine wondering how I had ever passed my basic bandaging course.
Upon thinking about my situation in the driveway, I considered I might have been able to get up myself if I had scooted on my behind closer to the step where I would have had some leverage. But in scooting, I might have ripped the seat out of fairly new jeans.
I am thankful that underneath those jeans there were no more bleeding areas but look at that large bruise on my knee and leg, right there nearly on top of the bruise that remains from injuries in a car crash over two years ago. I have photos.
When the elbow injury failed to heal, I am thankful my doctor jumped into action and worked his magic to clear up whatever was happening in my driveway rash. I now have a lovely scab. I wanted to take a photo but I FRXOGQ¶W ¿JXUH RXW KRZ WR GR D VHO¿H RI P\ VFDEE\ HOERZ Facebook friends should be thankful.
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We are both thankful for friends and family who have offered to help in anyway they can. I am especially thankful to a friend who quietly dropped off home-grown tomatoes and potatoes and loaves of homemade bread.
I looked at the driveway more closely the other day and saw the spot where my blood and DNA remain and am seriously thankful there are no chalk marks outlining where the body dropped.
Yes indeed, we have much for which to be thankful. We wish the same for others. Happy Thanksgiving.
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