Gift to dumped guy opened 47 years later

Story of long-suf­fer­ing ‘Heart­broke Bloke’ ends with lots of love

Penticton Herald - - FRONT PAGE - By The Cana­dian Press

ST. AL­BERT, Alta. — A man in Ed­mon­ton who made in­ter­na­tional head­lines for hold­ing onto a wrapped Christ­mas gift from a high-school girl­friend who dumped him 47 years ago fi­nally learned what it was on Thurs­day when she travelled to the city and opened it for him.

Adrian Pearce, now a mar­ried fa­ther of two, re­ceived the small present wrapped in shiny, pur­ple pa­per shortly be­fore Christ­mas 1971 from Vicki Allen, who was his very first sweet­heart at Ge­orge S. Henry Se­condary School in Toronto.

But when she handed it to him, she broke up with him. De­jected, Pearce re­turned to his fam­ily’s home, threw it un­der the Christ­mas tree and vowed never to open it.

The story last De­cem­ber about the un­opened gift ap­peared on TV, in news­pa­pers and on web­sites around the world. And as Allen stood on a stage in a packed cafe north­west of the city and peeled away the pa­per with Pearce stand­ing be­side her and his wife, Janet, in the au­di­ence, she her­self didn’t know what she’d see be­cause it was so long ago and she’d for­got­ten.

“Oh no!” Allen ex­claimed when she fi­nally saw. “I can’t give that to him!”

It was a small book called “Love Is: New Ways to Spot That Cer­tain Feel­ing” with car­toons and say­ings about love. “The irony is ex­treme,” Allen cried. The event was a fundraiser for the Christ­mas Bu­reau of Ed­mon­ton, a lo­cal char­ity that pro­vides Christ­mas meals to fam­i­lies in need.

“Love is all of us, all of you, here tonight for the Christ­mas Bu­reau of Ed­mon­ton,” Pearce re­sponded.

Days af­ter Pearce’s story ap­peared last Christ­mas, a friend who knew them both in high school sent Allen a link to one of the many ar­ti­cles writ­ten about it. Allen re­sponded by click­ing “like” on some of Pearce’s Face­book posts, and Peace fig­ured out who it was. They got in touch, and even­tu­ally Pearce and his wife were in­vited to meet her where she now lives in Bri­tish Columbia.

They learned that they all got along. They also learned the rea­son Allen dumped Pearce all those years ago.

It turned out that while Allen was shop­ping for Pearce’s gift at the mall, she met an­other boy and he kissed her on the spot.

“It wouldn’t have been so bad, but I kissed him back,” Allen said.

She said she knew Pearce would find out she had be­trayed him. She knew it was over be­tween them.

“It was a very in­no­cent re­la­tion­ship. We were in high school,” Allen ex­plained about her re­la­tion­ship with Pearce.

“I didn’t know he felt as in­tensely as he did.”

For years, even af­ter he’d mar­ried, Pearce still placed the dog-eared gift un­der the tree ev­ery Christ­mas. He en­joyed the mys­tery of it, but even­tu­ally his wife put her foot down when their daugh­ter, then five, wanted to open it.

“She said, ‘Daddy, when you die, I’ll be able to open it then, right?’ I told him he could keep it, but we just didn’t want (the gift) out in pub­lic,” she ex­plained.

“I’m pretty se­cure in our re­la­tion­ship. I’ve never been jeal­ous.”

Allen ad­mit­ted some trep­i­da­tion about meet­ing Pearce and his wife. Was he a stalker? He was a nice boy in 1971, but maybe, she thought, “he’s prob­a­bly be­come an ex­pert axe mur­der.”

Some peo­ple had ac­cused Allen of be­ing a ter­ri­ble per­son for giv­ing Pearce a Christ­mas present and then break­ing up with him. Pearce has also been called ev­ery­thing from “Heart­broke Bloke” in the Bri­tish press to “mo­ron” in one New York news­pa­per.

He’s since writ­ten a book about the whole ex­pe­ri­ence, and his wife and Allen con­trib­uted chap­ters.

“I think it’s ab­so­lutely fan­tas­tic that we’re friends. My wife is friends with (Vicki),” Pearce told the crowd.

“We’re in a fan­tas­tic place where all you can feel is love.”

The Cana­dian Press

Adrian Pearce and his for­mer high school girl­friend Vicki Allen open the 47-year-old gift, a book called Love Is, which she gave him when they broke up in 1971.

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