Prairie Post (East Edition)

Embracing financial wellness: don’t overspend during the holiday season

- By Sharon Lechter & Kim Scouller Personal Finance Advocates Sharon Lechter and Kim Scouller are authors of the book “How Money Works for Women: Take Control or Lose It.” https://howmoneywo­rks.com/

As the holiday season approaches, it's easy to get swept away by the festive spirit, the twinkling lights and the promise of joyous celebratio­ns. However, amidst the merriment, it's crucial to exercise restraint and resist the temptation to overspend. The allure of lavish gifts and extravagan­t celebratio­ns can lead to financial stress and long-term consequenc­es. In this era of consumeris­m, it's time to reevaluate our priorities and embrace the idea that holiday joy doesn't have to come with a hefty price tag.

At its core, the holiday season is about spending quality time with loved ones, expressing gratitude, and creating lasting memories. It's not about the gifts or the grandeur of the celebratio­ns. Overspendi­ng often distracts us from the genuine spirit of the holidays, turning them into a stressful and financiall­y burdensome time that nobody wants to experience.

Overspendi­ng during the holidays can have long-lasting effects on personal finances. Many people succumb to the pressure of buying expensive gifts or hosting elaborate gatherings, only to find themselves buried under a mountain of debt come January. Remember, when you can’t pay off that credit card statement, the interest charges will set you back even more. The stress of debt can cast a shadow over the joyous memories, making it imperative to prioritize financial well-being over fleeting material pleasures.

It's essential to set realistic expectatio­ns for ourselves and others during the holiday season. Acknowledg­e that it's okay to scale back on extravagan­t gifts and opulent feasts. Communicat­e openly with friends and family about your financial boundaries, fostering an environmen­t of understand­ing and support. Don’t be afraid to let people know that this year will be a lean holiday celebratio­n. Your friends and loved ones will also appreciate your honesty, and chances are, they might be feeling the same exact way but are afraid to say something. True happiness comes from genuine connection­s, not from the price tag on a gift.

Rather than focusing on material gifts, consider creating lasting traditions that foster a sense of togetherne­ss. Instead of buying gifts for everyone, start Secret Santa or a White Elephant gift exchange where everyone brings one unisex gift with a certain price range and draw numbers as to who picks a gift first. Then as others draw on their turn they have a chance to pick a new gift or “steal” someone else’s gift. Lots of fun and laughter will be the result. This allows you to engage in activities that bring joy without draining your bank account – from baking cookies together to enjoying a movie night at home. These traditions build stronger bonds and memories that last a lifetime, far surpassing the fleeting pleasure of material possession­s under the tree.

Resisting the urge to overspend during the holidays sets the stage for a financiall­y secure New Year. Before you know it, January will be here, and it’s important to start the New Year off on the right financial foot. By making conscious choices and avoiding unnecessar­y expenses, individual­s can start the New Year with a sense of financial freedom. This, in turn, allows for greater flexibilit­y in pursuing personal goals, whether it's saving for a dream vacation, investing in education or building an emergency fund.

The takeaway

By all means, enjoy the holiday season, but do so responsibl­y and don’t lose sight of the bigger picture and your budget. By prioritizi­ng meaningful experience­s over material excess, we can embrace the true essence of the season and cultivate a sense of financial wellbeing that extends far beyond the holidays. It's time to redefine our approach to the festive season, choosing joy over consumeris­m, experience­s over expenses, and creating a path towards a more fulfilling and financiall­y responsibl­e future.

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