Where are your manners, ladies?

The following column was originally published in 2013.

Dear Annie: I have been disabled for several years. I have a hip problem and arthritis in both legs, so I need to use the accessible toilet stall because of its higher seat and room for mobility.

I use a cane to get around, so it’s obvious I have a hard time walking.

There are times when I need a wheelchair.

You would think that Jill Q. Public would be courteous, and in most cases, they are.

However, I have encountered women who let children play in the accessible stall for a halfhour, and once, a young woman who specifically wanted that stall even though there were others available.

I even have been shoved aside because of the race to get in.

Just because I move slower doesn’t mean my need isn’t as urgent. Please, ladies, life is challenging enough without this kind of rudeness.

Consider how you would want to be treated if you were in my shoes.

Vermont Reader Dear Vermont: We cannot understand how anyone would deny the use of an accessible stall to someone who requires it.

Please don’t be reluctant to speak up if someone grabs that stall while you are waiting. Here’s the rule:

The accessible stall may be used by an able-bodied person provided that no one needs it, no other stall is available and you will be quick.

When you can wait for a regular stall, please do so.

Annie’s Mailbox is written by Kathy Mitchell and Marcy Sugar, longtime editors of the Ann Landers column.