My partner has a past life she’s never told me about
I was on Cloud 9 when I met my then-girlfriend, who’s now my wife of several months. She’s witty, charming, attractive, funny, loving and affectionate.
We had a dream life. Until her ex-best friend came into the picture.
This woman claims that my wife had unpaid debts which she insists that I settle, though stemming from long before we’d met.
My wife’s unaware that her ex-friend approached me to settle her debts. I refused, and told the woman that I wasn’t interested.
Then this “friend” dropped a bombshell on me, asserting that my wife had worked as an exotic dancer at adult establishments which later progressed to her offering intimate companionship services as an escort.
I didn’t want to believe her but after conducting some extensive sleuthing I learned that it’s all true.
Her ex-friend shared with me a sex tape that shows my wife engaging in intimacy with at least 10 men during one of her paid encounters.
I’m very angry and troubled by these upsetting revelations.
I’m seriously considering speaking to a lawyer and even contemplating divorce. Please advise.
Duped and Deceived
Two major red flags in this story: 1) The informant is no ex-“friend,” but rather a nasty, jealous, conniving person who tried to shake you down for money for her.
If she persists, have a lawyer deal with her claims.
2) You adored your wife and loved your life with her, yet you rush to consider divorce before even talking to her about her past.