Create a spark by exploring countless opportunities
Bigs and Littles become close friends when they match talents
Sparks and shared interests are often what bring a Big and Little, or mentor and mentee, together the most.
When Big Brothers Big Sisters of Colchester matches are made, service delivery staff pay close attention to what the interests, skills and unique talents of both the volunteers and children are and use those to create the strongest matches possible. It’s one of the many ingredients in a successful match which can bridge the gap from being strangers to friends.
Some of the many interests Bigs/Littles, mentors/mentees share are farming, hockey, art, cooking, fishing, taekwondo, DND and doing science experiments together. When a volunteer brings a new activity to a match meeting, they are igniting potential in the child by providing them with opportunities and a whole new world. Trial and error is important, but when a child finds that spark, they hang on to it.
Some children simply do not get exposure or access to various activities and we love when volunteers can help them do more.
Bringing a child on a boat with a fishing rod and helping them catch their first fish is something that is rewarding for everyone and certainly unforgettable. An invitation to a family campfire in the summer is exciting for some kids, and even better if someone is playing the guitar. Spending time outside, going for hikes and bringing a Little along for the journey often encourages friendly banter and can help boost a mood.
Skating is definitely a winter favourite, especially with the free ice surface and pretty lights at Civic Square in Truro. Snowboarding and skiing are great alternatives for those who like that extra adrenaline rush. We also have Littles matched with Bigs who have farm animals and they love helping out around the barn.
Other matches prefer indoor activities and a perfect example is cooking and baking together. Some schools allow in-school matches to use their kitchens so they can bake cookies. Kids love being able to measure things, use cookie cutters, and use the oven with the help of their mentor. The most exciting part for mentees is often being able to share what they made with their class, while also learning important skills as they move throughout life.
Theatre and music are common interests between volunteers and children and some matches love reading together. One in-school match is always doing science experiments, from making volcanos to using microscopes to explore their surroundings. We strongly encourage exploring, creating, thinking outside the box, though it’s worth noting that sometimes just a chat goes a long way.
In other news, we have had some exciting things happening. Last month, a community-based Little brother on the waitlist was matched after two years. Because he lives in a rural community, it was difficult to find someone who was close enough, but we found the right fit. In addition, an in-school mentee was matched after five years on the waitlist – both in the same week.
These two matches are big wins for us and the kids and it speaks to our matching process. Things must be just right for two people to click.
The organization has more to come, including an upcoming Saint Patrick’s Day lucky Bingo.
We are also always looking for volunteers and invite you to inquire should you feel the time is right. Share your spark!