Breast CANCER

Five ways to help a loved one who has cancer

When dealing with a loved one’s illness, you may feel like there isn’t much you can do. But the truth of the matter is that seemingly simple gestures can improve the quality of life of a person who’s battling cancer. Here are five ways to help a friend or family member who’s sick.

1. MAKE THEIR MEALS

Cooking can be a gruelling task for those undergoing treatment for cancer. One way to help your loved one is to make and freeze meals for them. Picking up groceries is also helpful. When going to the supermarket, consider getting snacks, produce and other products they may need.

2. BECOME THEIR DRIVER

Driving can be stressful for a loved one who’s sick. Certain medications might make them drowsy and the illness itself may leave them fatigued. Go with them to their doctor’s appointments. It will be a relief, and your being there will also bring comfort.

3. DO THEIR HOUSEKEEPING

Household chores are tiring for those fighting cancer. If you want to lend a hand you could take out the trash, vacuum the floors, do the laundry, clean the dishes, dust the furniture or take care of the yardwork. Every little bit helps.

4. HELP WITH CHILD CARE

Those with cancer may have family obligations they find difficult to meet. See to the parenting tasks that your loved one used to take care of: pick up their children from daycare or school, make lunches, drive children to their activities or simply babysit while your loved one rests.

5. LISTEN

Cancer triggers many feelings: anger, anxiety, fear, sadness and more. If you sense that your friend or family member needs to talk, lend them an ear. Your being there is important to them.