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When & if at all, husband asNs his wife at the end of the day What did you do today ’ Wife is always slightly confused that what should she say How can she answer this Tuestion daily The same thing over and over again. How can she answer the same monotone Tuestion with a mundane an swer that she did the same thing she did yesterday. She cooNed, cleaned, managed & maintained the routines of the day. She tooN care of the children and family and did her daily chores. So instead, she smiles and says , did nothing’. o we re ali e that this nothing’ is maNing every one’s cup of tea from the morning till late night and everything in between When she does this, it facilitates a smooth house hold operation. The house is what turns into a “HOME”. When she is respected, loved & cherished her sacrifice of doing nothing special is respected. ,n this mod ern world where everyone is worNing, the worN should actually be distributed to all the family members, yet somebody still as to the lead of doing that nothing special’. 7 R SHRSOH D H WR H W H DFN R H RI W H R H ,n today’s time, lifestyles have shifted. However, we are still the same people. We still expect more from a woman and give less. ESPE&T & E /, T,O1. There are two Ney pillars for a healthy atmosphere of any home. ll the family members should have respect for each other. This means that even if we differ in our opinions, even if we do not agree or liNe the decisions of elders, we should still respect them and trust their experi ence. They have more wisdom the us. We should try to understand and respectfully show them our view points. /ives is all about having an open mind and Neep your mind open for discus sion. The choice of words and behav iour can facilitate any conversation to a better world. Selfishness & short term benefits are the root cause of destruc tion. Tolerance teaches you to rise above yourself from only thinNing from our own view point. ,t teaches us to see beyond our nose. Everyone in the family should be thought of and considered as an im portant being. nfortunately this is very unpleasant on the shoulders of elders, parents. They are often misunderstood by children. The behaviour of grown up children is the reflection of parent’s early behaviour. When there is harmony in the parent’s relationship, the child learns. The youth being inexperienced in life fails to understand certain things and ultimately harms their own self. When parents seem soft corner for weaNer child or Neep pa tience in improving one the others thinN it to be in ustice to them or they taNe wrong route of elf pity or rebellious thoughts & actions but fail to give cooperation. So once married it is necessary to first understand the role of both parties & set some basic rules of household, taNe re sponsibility of new life together and if needed change themselves and honour each other. Start the life properly before children are given birth. This can e made oyful, interesting experience with the help of love & understanding. ,nfo