Life after Fifty

W e always hear two words like, oh we are no longer any young now, we are getting old or what difference does it make now etc. Life begins when we start living it yes conditions apply. Yes we do have certain physical mental limitation but that’s not the end of world but little inconvenience . Flashback- That’s the thing to be avoided to go in flashback often. Let’s not just live in past because to live in present become slightly difficult. That not only make us sad but at the same time make us incompetent. We can not stop thought from coming but let us not welcome them too. Yes we should feel happy and proud for our past achievements or some great things. Time on hands-now we have enough time on our hand to cultivate or do the hobbies or activities we always wanted to do. We should find out the activities we can do and we spend time with our seniors and most importantly we can do volunteer work. Big no- the big no is for giving unasked, unwanted advice giving to youngsters and others. Big no for emotional blackmail or taking advantages of family members. Generation gap-let this generation gap do not back fine on us other way round. Let us not feel alien to the new ways of life in present lifestyle or thoughts. We are expected to be more mature and understanding then the young generation. Time table-the very important thing in our life is to have some rules, some time managements and some routines. yes we can tension free days but to enjoy our freedom we need to have some discipline. We have to focus on mind exercise that can be anything like walking or yoga but it has tom be. Secondly we have to eat healthy and proper food, nutritional food if we are taking some regular medicines we have to take care of our medicine timings. Take interest around us ,in life in general and around us let us line fully rather than just exist the joke life plats with many and most is that in young age one has wishes, wants energy but either no time or money or both. Or some time lots of responsibilities like small children or old parents. In our 50s and 60s we have time money and no responsibilities as such but health or physical condition is issue. The bottom line is that wherever we are in whichever condition we are living whether we are 50 or 15 it is very important to understand the valuable gift of life we have and happiness and what is got to be done is to be done at any stage of life. Just chill – one young girl wrote on face book if daughters allowed to keep parents there will not be old age homes in the country .on that one young boy commented if these same daughters treat and think at their in-laws as their own parents then not only country but world will not need the old age homes. On a lighter note –if you love something set it free. It is comes back it’s yours. If it doesn’t it never was And if it just sets on sofa watching TV unaware that it is set free you are either married to it or has given birth to it.