Cooking with love
How to make a family cookbook, filled with recipes
In this pandemic, so many of us are suffering from the physical absence of loved ones and activities that typically fill our lives with connection. Making a family cookbook is one way to combat this feeling, to feel connected and purposeful.
Anyone anywhere can make a family cookbook for very little, if any, money. Here's how to do it:
MAKE A LIST OF `FAMILY'
The most important step is to remember that “family” is yours to define. It could be your relatives, or it could be your friends from school or whoever.
DECIDE YOUR FORMAT
Family cookbooks can be printed or digital. They can also be a series of videos, almost a documentary of family recipes. You could narrate recipes and record others doing the same and make a family cookbook podcast or think of it as an album, each recipe a song.
For printed versions, you can go as analog as handwritten recipes and stories, and maybe even some illustrations, on paper you photocopy for family members and then bind.
CONSIDER IMAGES
You could add black-andwhite illustrated outlines of things and make it a family cookbook/colouring book. You could do colour copies and include photographs. For a more polished printed version, you can do a quick internet search for one of the many templates and services available for you to fill in the blanks, and they will do the printing and binding. The same range is available for digital cookbooks.
PICK AN ORGANIZING PRINCIPLE — OR NOT
Is it just a collection of favourite recipes? That works. You can also use a flexible outline that will allow you to get more specific while also
maintaining some openness. Will you want it to include such categories as breakfast, lunch and dinner recipes? Or soups, salads, main courses, side dishes, dessert and drinks? Maybe you'd like to organize it seasonally.
Not sure? That's OK. You can just gather a bunch of recipes and then see if a natural outline emerges. Or take a look at your favourite cookbooks and study how their chapters are organized. There's no right way of doing this, but it is helpful to have organization in mind when you start gathering recipes. This will inform whether you're asking for specific recipes or just gathering whatever comes your way.
START GATHERING
Reach out to the people on your list with clear expectations. Explain what you're making, who else you're
reaching out to, what exactly you're asking for, when you'd like it by and how you'll be sharing it when it's all set. When it comes to the ask itself, refer to the format you've decided on and ask accordingly.
Be specific about how you'd like to receive the material. You can ask your contributors to write a recipe for you, or set up a time for you to interview them on the phone about how they make their recipe, or you can request people take a video of themselves making the dish and then you can write down the steps. In addition to the recipes, also collect the stories behind them.
DECIDE HOW MUCH CONSISTENCY YOU WANT
The recipes you gather will likely come to you in a mix of styles. You can choose to keep the mix, or put all of the recipes in a uniform style. Traditionally,
this means a list of ingredients in the order they're called for in the recipe, plus clear steps for how to make the dish.
One of the greatest things about a family cookbook is you can choose whatever conventions you like and dismiss the ones you don't. Some people have grandmothers who keep recipes on notecards with specific measurements and refer to them each time they make something. Others have relatives and friends who cook by feel and intuition. There's room for all of us, and whether your family cookbook contains precise measurements or descriptive prose that just describes how a dish is made, it's all valuable.
SHARE THE COOKBOOK
Send copies to everyone involved. Bring the book to life with an in-person potluck if safe to do so (outdoors with social distance) or through a virtual potluck where everyone cooks a recipe from the cookbook and then you gather online to talk about what you're eating and how it felt to cook it. Just as making it can help you feel connected, so can cooking from it.