Scattering a loved one’s ashes
My friend always loved his special spot by the lake. He had many happy memories of fishing and spending time with his family there. In fact, one of his last wishes was that his ashes be scattered on the shore. But when the time came for us to fulfill his last request, we all had the same question: are we allowed to scatter ashes in a public place?
In B.C., a deceased person must be either buried or cremated. After cremation, there are options for what can be done with the ashes. Most cemeteries have small plots for cre- mated remains or scattering gardens. What you may not be aware is that, as long as you have permission of the landowner or local government, there are no limitations as to where ashes can be spread – either on public or private land.
Of course, there may be specific instructions left by your loved one as to how you are to dispose of the ashes. Under B.C. law, if there is a written preference made by a deceased person about the disposition of his or her ashes, the wish is binding. This means that if my friend had specifically requested in his will, in writing, that his ashes be scattered by the lake, there is an obligation to follow out his request (provided the request is not unreasonable, impracticable or will cause hardship).
For details, visit Consumer Protection BC. online: www.funeralrightsbc.ca.