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Sketchiest stuff your kid can learn on the internet

Despite your best precaution­s, it’s impossible to protect child from every risky thing online

- CAROLINE KNORR COMMON SENSE MEDIA

Set a curious kid loose on the internet, and you have a match made in learning heaven. Unfortunat­ely, for every geometry lesson on Khan Academy, there are step-by-step instructio­ns for something not just age-inappropri­ate — but potentiall­y illegal or dangerous.

While browser settings and parental controls can help keep your kids on appropriat­e sites, it’s nearly impossible to shield them from every risky thing. But most tweens and teens who look up how to make fireworks, for example, are not reckless enough to try it. Try not to freak out if you find them searching for something iffy. That way, you keep the lines of communicat­ion open, and you can better help kids to think critically, ethically and safely about what they find online.

Here are a few examples of the not-sonice info kids can easily find, plus some conversati­on starters. (If you’re really concerned that your kid’s exploratio­ns are leading them into dangerous territory, you may need to take more serious action.) How to drive You can learn anything on YouTube, even how to operate a vehicle. An 8-year-old boy apparently learned how to drive on YouTube. He then drove his little sister to the McDonald’s drive-thru. It’s not wrong to watch videos on how to drive — but they should never be attempted without the proper permit and an adult.

So-called ‘fail videos’ can all lead to copycat videos where kids post their failures for others’ entertainm­ent

How to do dangerous experiment­s There are plenty of legit science games, sites and apps that explain how to conduct experiment­s responsibl­y using the scientific method. But just as popular are videos that show step-by-step instructio­ns for risky procedures such as “Fire in a Bottle,” “Mentos and Coke,” or an erupting volcano without proper safety procedures.

Adding insult to injury — literally — are the so-called “fail videos” that show kids getting hurt in the process of doing these experiment­s. These can all lead to copycat videos where kids post their failures for others’ entertainm­ent. How to make fireworks Fashioning your own fireworks is popular around the Fourth of July. If your kids are curious about it, you can find instructio­ns that include all of the necessary safety precaution­s — including not attempting without an adult present. How to vape Not only can you learn how to use an e-cigarette, you can also learn how to do what’s called “vape tricks.” Sort of like blowing smoke rings, vape tricks are done to entertain friends. Vaping videos and pictures of celebritie­s vaping make it look cool and fun, but it’s obviously an unhealthy habit. Remind your kid that e-cig companies give vapes to celebritie­s for free so that they can be photograph­ed by the paparazzi. How to cheat Cheating instructio­ns take advantage of the internet’s anonymity. If no one can see you copying answers, using other’s work or even downloadin­g game cheats — who cares, right? Wrong. Because it’s so easy to do, it’s crucial to talk to your kids about behaving honesty and with integrity — even when no one can see you. What you can do Talk to your kids about your expectatio­ns for what they do online, including being safe and using common sense. Then, ask questions that prompt deeper thinking such as:

Is it ethical to teach people how to do risky activities online?

Do you think these lessons are accurate?

Who’s responsibl­e if someone gets hurt from attempting online instructio­ns? Only the injured party? The original poster? The website?

What would you do if a friend wanted to do something harmful?

What are the best conditions for conducting experiment­s?

Just because you can find certain informatio­n online, should you look for it?

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