Remember the beauty of the tree and the season
In many ancient societies, prior to the adoption of the evergreen as a symbol of Christmas, the use of evergreen trees, wreaths, and garlands symbolized eternal life, while bringing good fortune and prosperity to the home or village displaying these decorations.
One of my most treasured childhood memories is of the annual family Christmas tree. Each year it was different, yet there were always some commonalities – special ornaments, the celebration associated with the decorating, the laughter and the warmth of family. The tree was, for me, the beginning of the season. When it unfortunately had to be taken down, there was inevitably a sense of profound sadness. Yet, I consoled myself with the thought that next year it would return to grace our living room and that it would be just as special.
Digby town and county have become very well dressed for the season – our neighbours sharing their happiness with their creativity. The lights, the trees, the lawn displays, some of which include Santas and snowmen, are delightful. If you roll down the windows, you will also discover that some are broadcasting music.
The holidays can bring out the best and the worst in all of us. This spirit of giving, love and sharing, as demonstrated by these many outward displays and personal traditions, are heartwarming. However, the material, the media hype and self-imposed deadlines or unrealistic expectations can cast a grim shadow.
Finding the perfect gift, making all of the treasured treats, decorating, entertaining, wow it can be quite overwhelming. Then there are some who for whatever reason cannot come anywhere near their memories of holidays past. Their stress is just as great, perhaps more.
I have done my time in the purgatory of the retail industry during the Christmas season. Some memories are wonderful, but others are of cranky, demanding people who have lost their perspective. The sales associate who is assisting you in your search or calculating your purchases at the checkout is also under a great deal of pressure. It is busy and you are not aware of how long or hard they have worked that day. As they smile at you, respond in kind or as a gesture – you smile first.
As you go about your preparations, it is important that you really hear and understand yourself or your actions. Reflect on the personal practices, the outward demonstrations of neighbours, friends or family; the history of holiday traditions and the reason for the season – the birth of the Prince of Peace.
Like the symbol of the tree it is useful to remember the joys of the past, adapt, move forward, then reflect on the potentials for this time and promise for the future.