How To Design Your Own Engagement Ring

Personalised jewellery is a wonderful way to celebrate your marriage, says bespoke engagement ring designer Michelle Oh

1 Take your time

It can feel overwhelming when you first start a bespoke commission because there are so many things to consider. I often ask my clients to focus on what they want their centre stone to be, rather than deciding everything in one go. The design process will flow naturally to suit whatever they choose as the centrepiece.

2 Break the rules (but not all of them)

The secret to finding a healthy balance between what’s original and what’s timeless is retaining at least one traditional element when designing your bespoke jewellery. For example, if you’ve got your heart set on a coloured gemstone that’s cut into a quirky shape, keep the rest of the ring’s silhouette pared back so there’s not too much going on.

3 Be practical

It’s tempting to customise every little thing about your bespoke ring, but this can result in a design that feels too busy. If you’re commissioning a set, consider how the engagement ring and wedding band will be worn together, as well as how they work individually.

4 Think ahead

Be honest with yourself and try to understand why you’re drawn to certain styles. If you’ve only recently become “obsessed” with a shape or colour, ask yourself whether this is reflective of what you’re looking for in the long term.

5 Be true to yourself

It’s natural to ask others for their opinion but you’re the one who will be wearing your wedding jewellery. Listen a little less to what your mum, friends or sister think, and focus more on what you like and want from your own ring. You won’t regret it.