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HELP TEENAGERS GET ORGANISED

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BEING a teenager was never easy, but today’s teens face unpreceden­ted levels of pressure, facing both new stresses like social media and age-old problems like exam stress and puberty.

However, a new book aims to help teenagers by showing them how to use a simple yet successful business strategy to navigate the tsunami of distractio­ns life throws at them and feel in control by being organised.

Getting Things Done for Teens outlines a common-sense way of identifyin­g goals and projects and coping with the complexiti­es of day-to-day life through a simple 5-Step system of written lists and mapping, plus instructio­ns on how to clearly focus on achieving both small and large goals in an orderly fashion.

One of the book’s authors, David Allen, says Getting Things Done, or GTD, is a way of learning to become focused and engaged with the present, being aware of what’s next, and finding stability when things feel out of control.

“What can you do to take control of your life in a distractin­g world?” he asks. “These timeless productivi­ty tips can be used to reduce stress, increase selfconfid­ence, and get things done in school and life.”

Allen, who wrote this book with Mike Williams and Mark Wallace, after first writing the Getting Things Done work-life management system book, says the initial five Steps of GTD can be done alone by a teenager, or together with a parent. All you need is paper, a pen and 15 minutes.

At least once a day, write down on a piece of paper the stuff on your mind that has your attention. The authors call this a mindsweep. Set a timer for five minutes and see how much stuff you can capture.

The Clarify process takes one item on the paper at a time. Teenagers need to decide whether it’s actionable, and if so, write down the very next action on an actions list. Complete this for every item captured on the mindsweep list.

“We also like to call this the transforme­r tool, as it transforms stuff into actionable or nonactiona­ble items, “says Allen, who points out it may take about 10 minutes to clarify all your “stuff”.

Find a trusted place to store the action list you’ve just created. It can be a paper list or a digital list on your phone or computer.

Look at all the actions on your action list. Reflect for a moment and select an action that needs your attention. Circle it.

Do that action. Repeat the process for the rest of your life.

“The Five Steps is a starting point for the GTD journey,” says Allen.

After gaining control through the Five Steps, the authors say teenagers need to look at their six Levels of Focus, which are:

Teenagers need to write down why they’re here, and this can be changed repeatedly on a “purpose map”.

This involves writing down on a “vision map” what young people would like to see themselves doing if they were wildly successful in the coming years. This can include who the teen will be, who they’ll be with, and what they’ll be doing — basically, a map of their ideal future.

What do the purpose and vision maps inspire you to do this year? These should generally be larger aspiration­s with a more immediate time frame — for example getting in the school football team. These goals should be written down and checked off when they’re achieved.

This is a list of the major parts of a teenager’s life that continuall­y need their attention. These areas can change over time, and will include things like family, school/college, and activities.

Projects may be well-defined, like “English homework in on Friday”, or something teenagers have to make happen, like “get a summer job”. Write these down. Actions are then the physical, visible actions needed to get the projects done.

The final stage of the GTD process is the Planning Map, which aims to help teenagers work their way through any situation by outlining the natural steps the mind automatica­lly goes through when someone wants to accomplish something.

These include defining the purpose, brainstorm­ing, organising and identifyin­g the next actions.

“The practice of gaining control of your life is simple and powerful,” stresses Allen. “If you practise and master these simple steps, you’ll know how to gain control, lose it, and gain control again. It will boost your selfconfid­ence, reduce your stress, and increase your creativity.

“You don’t have to take our word for it. The best way to understand is to give it a try — let experience be your teacher.”

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