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I get it, it’s your account and people have no business of asking when suddenly you stop posting him, but personally I feel the less people know the better. But again people should do what they want, at the end of the day it is their life, I was just saying that personally I don’t support it.

Gcebile from the office shared that she loved the article, and that she learnt a lot from it. She said she also doesn’t post Sipho for obvious reasons, during our lunch chats.

She told me that she only posts his shoes and sometimes his watch and that’s about it,

It’s

just safer that way.

Hear me out, I’m not saying that I’m a fan of hiding the people in your life or dating

it’s just being careful. Also as you grow up you realise that privacy is beautiful, what people don’t know can’t ruin.

The honest truth is not everyone is happy to see you happy and would go out of their way to make sure that they spoil things for you. And then there are those who will volunteer to give you information you didn’t ask for, like the list of his ex’s that you didn’t request.

Some names are made up to irritate you, and some make you regret why you made the relationship public, as it was like opening a can of worms.

Now all his crazy exes are now stalking you ,some send not so nice messages in your inbox, informing you how abusive he was, they just want him back, because girl’s wow!

They will share with you how terrible of a boyfriend he was, not to mention that he was a player, when in actual fact they are secretly hoping that you will dump him, so they can ask for love back.

So, given all those scenarios of the pros and cons, you decide if it’s worth posting, I still say don’t, for your own peace.

And by the way, there are plenty ways of marking your territory besides posting him, will tell you all about it next week, God willing!