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individual­s simply a reflection of an ailing society? It can be argued that the unrepentan­ce of offenders proves only that they have no conscience, and says nothing about our society as a whole. Yet what do our own responses to such stories say about this society? After all, many have become so accustomed to reading about women and children being raped and murdered that they are no longer disturbed by it.

Experience

Those who do experience hurt and outrage may feel this way for an hour or so, before moving onto other preoccupat­ions.

The fact that we have grown used to unfathomab­le levels of brutality suggests that we are a country misguided. This is not said in defence of offenders but, rather, it is a suggestion that when we point to these criminals and ask what is wrong with them, we should stop to consider what may be wrong with the very fabric of our nation.

Plenty of psychologi­cal theories have long acknowledg­ed that it is not unusual for individual­s to act out their social frustratio­ns on each other.

According to this logic, a man who feels overcome by his financial struggles or poor living conditions cannot direct his aggression towards his boss, his landlord, or even the unstable economy.

All the true sources of his oppression are either more powerful than him or beyond his reach.

Thus, it is simply easier for him to abuse his spouse in order to release his pent-up rage without fearing the consequenc­es.

Taking this theory to the broader level, one can see how a man who feels emasculate­d by society may use rape as a weapon to feel empowered. The victim is forcefully placed in submission to the aggressor, irrespecti­ve of how this is achieved.

Ultimately, no legitimate social reform can take place unless we are willing to look beyond the surface and ask ourselves the hard questions.

Can a society in which people are starving, unemployed and disenfranc­hised really expect the majority of its citizens to lead a functional existence? Aren’t desperate crimes committed by those who lead lives of desperatio­n? Are broken people not the reflection of a broken system? Indeed, if we want to get to the heart of the matter, we should examine the heart of the nation.

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