The power of letting go

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world witnessed with AKA’s passing how his baby mama DJ Zinhle supported his girlfriend, fellow singer Nadia Nakai. There is a lot that baby mamas can learn from her and take a page from her book.

She showed the outmost comfort to her baby daddy’s girlfriend, never did she throw shade that she was the only baby mama as the rapper only had one child, their daughter Kairo.

She didn’t make it about her and suddenly play the daughter-in-law by default role as some baby mama’s do. She stepped back and let Nadia be the girlfriend that the rapper clearly loved, which he did, he did it loudly and proudly.

What a beautiful love story the two shared, just by watching the videos that she keep posting on social media shows how smitten they were as a couple.

I take my hat off for Zinhle, I hope the world now views her in a different light, even if they had any misconceptions before.

As much as she got married to someone else, she mastered the co-parenting skills which most have a challenge with. Well done DJ Zinhle, you showed the world that it’s possible to break up with someone and still be civil and respect also accept their current partner; she really taught us a thing or two.

Personally, I’m not too sure how I would have handled the situation. Would I have been as diplomatic as the DJ, I am not sure, mainly because it took me a really long time to get over my baby daddy. I’m not sure if a situation like that happened and I was still head over heals in love with him at the time if I would have been as lovey dovey with his girlfriend.

Although there was an almost similar incidence where his relative passed away and I was pregnant with his child, but we had parted ways.