The Fiji Times

Family structure

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FORMER First Lady Barbara Bush once said, “Your success as a family, our success as a society, depends not on what happens in the White House, but on what happens inside your house.”

This reaffirms what we already know: that the foundation and cornerston­e of society is the family at home. No global treaty emanating from the UN and EU that take away parenting rights and responsibi­lities will diminish the veracity of this truism.

Spare the rod and spoil the child is an age old adage in existence well before the UN and EU were a glint in their sponsors eye. And the hook-line-and-sinker acceptance of the diktats of the UN and EU bureaucrat­s without any regard to local traditions and culture by the government indicate an inclinatio­n on appeasing some people and ignoring the most important stakeholde­r, parents, who are their electorate­s. Some things out of UN and EU are OK such as highlighti­ng and exposing domestic violence, but for government officialdo­m to take over parenting just because they pay some of the bills is to forget where funds for those bills come from anyway. Parents should be restored their right to discipline their own children and teachers their right to throw students off their classroom if these children are habitually disruptive and ill-discipline­d.

If government cannot even manage the economy, then I do not want them anywhere near having a say on how I should discipline my children. Parents should strive to give wellbehave­d children to teachers to teach and inform, not straddle them with unruly and ill-discipline­d ones.

Give back to parents their God-given rights, and to teachers their classrooms, and to government the opportunit­y to figure out how to patch the $1bn black hole.

Why is this common sense approach so hard to organise around? MAREKO VULI Wainibuku Rd, Nakasi

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