Interpersonal skills:
A person of influence
Teamleiter brauchen für ein Projekt nicht nur fachliche Kompetenz, sondern müssen durch ihre Persönlichkeit auch das Vertrauen und Engagement der Mitarbeiter gewinnen.
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1. Trust me (5 points)
What should Lina do to build trust with the members of her team and with her client? Choose the correct options.
A. Be a good listener and show interest in other
people’s needs and feelings.
1. Pay attention when someone is talking about
something important.
2. Ask questions and check everyone’s understanding regularly.
B. Show that she is a person of integrity and
principles.
1. Be consistent. If she promises to do something, she has to do it.
2. Insist on her position, resist change and push
back hard if she meets resistance.
C. Build trust by reacting appropriately in a
crisis.
1. Admit any mistakes and commit to finding a
solution.
2. Make a good excuse when things go wrong.
D. Show authority and credibility.
1. Highlight other people’s weaknesses and poor
track record.
2. Make appropriate use of real social proof: refer to references and recommendations from people who have worked with her before.
E. Show the client that what she is offering is
truly unique and the best option available.
1. Exaggerate the company’s exclusivity. 2. Highlight the company’s strengths, values and
reputation.
2. Be open to all viewpoints (8 points)
Lina arranges a meeting with Sue and Mike to discuss the project. She wants to create a cooperative atmosphere. Complete these sentences with the missing nouns. We’ve given you the first three letters.
Lina: So, what (A) iss would you like to discuss today?
Sue: The client still hasn’t chosen a final design, but they want everything by September.
Mike: We already have less time for programming. It’s just not possible.
Lina: We’ll need to figure out a (B) sol that meets all of our needs and the client’s interests. Sue, what’s your
(C) per on this?
Sue: We need to get the client to change the deadline.
Lina: Mike, are there any other (D) ave you’d like to explore?
Mike: We could meet the original deadline if we had more programmers.
Lina: OK, that’s an option. Is there anything else that we should take into
(E) con ?
Mike: I’ve already spoken to the other teams. If the client pays, we can have two more programmers on this project next week. Lina: So, what’s your (F) pre , Sue? More time, or more people?
Sue: More people. That’s a good idea, Mike. We’re starting another big project in October, so it would make our life a lot easier if we finished this one on time. Lina: Great. I’ll talk to the client about the additional costs. Is everyone happy with this? Are we in (G) agr ?
Sue: Absolutely.
Mike: I’m OK with that, too.
Lina: Remember, if you need any
(H) sup , come and talk to me. My door is always open.
3. Show empathy, get input (8 points)
Before Sue meets the client, she thinks about how she will show empathy and find out more about their needs. Rearrange the words to create statements and questions she might use. The first word is in the correct position.
A. I’d / your / hear / of / view / like / to / point
.
B. Tell / mind / on / what’s / me / your
.
C. How / you / this / see / do
?
D. I / you / how / imagine / feel / can
.
E. You / have / a / there / point / may
.
F. I / concerns / your / understand
.
G. To / feel / same / honest, / I / the / way / be
.
H. I / must / it / realize / difficult / have / how /
been
.
4. Show strength (8 points)
Lina presents her recommendations to Nick Bates, who is the project head on the client side. Unscramble the letters to form the missing adjectives.
A. Our own ni-thdep research with consumers clearly shows that people prefer the red design. I think that’s the one that will be more effective.
B. I’d also like to share with you some uavalble
insights I gained from working on a project that was very similar to this one.
C. I feel there is a rasidconeble danger that we could miss your final deadline.
D. Even if you decide this week, my stifr- dahn
experience of such projects tells me we won’t finish in time.
E. I’d like to make one uctstrivecon
suggestion. We should increase the programming budget.
F. It’s a dafuntalmen change, but a necessary one.
G. The owinghelmver advantage of these programmers is that they have all worked with you in the past. They know your company.
H. If you want to be ready in September, there is simply no other blviae alternative.
5. Great job! (8 points)
The right compliments show that you respect someone — and like them. Match the sentence halves to create compliments and positive statements that Lina can use when talking to her team and the client.
To the client:
A. I’m looking forward…
B. It’s been a pleasure…
C. I genuinely enjoyed this meeting. Thank you… D. It’s been great to…
To team members:
E. I really appreciate how…
F. Your contribution to…
G. I see you’ve put a lot of…
H. You’ve made huge progress. Keep up…
1. the design is vital.
2. the good work!
3. talking to you today.
4. work into making this a success. 5. work with you again.
6. for meeting us today.
7. to working with you.
8. hard you have worked.
6. Make connections (7 points)
Lina takes time to make small talk with the client. The words in bold are not where they should be. Put them where they belong.
Nick: Well, it’s been a hard week.
Lina: You can say that (A) more! Nick: Personally, I can’t wait for the weekend. Lina: Me (B) here. Are you going anywhere special?
Nick: Stockholm.
Lina: No (C) again! You know that’s where I grew up, don’t you? Nick: I thought so, but I wasn’t certain. My wife thinks it’s a beautiful city.
Lina: I couldn’t agree (D) neither. That’s interesting. I try to go back as often as I can.
Nick: I prefer it in winter, though.
Lina: Really? Same (E) what! This might seem like a crazy question, but do you like meat?
Nick: Of course I do. Why?
Lina: Then you should book a table in Jureskog. It’s so trendy. And it has incredible burgers. Nick: That’s funny you should say (F) way. We’re going there on Saturday with friends.
Lina: (G) that a coincidence. Well, I hope you have a great time.
Nick: Thanks. I’m sure we will.
7. Get commitment (6 points)
Lina confirms some of her points in an email to the team. Complete the text with the correct forms of the verbs below. Also, decide which influencing technique — or combination of techniques — she is using with each statement: commitment, scarcity, expertise, empathy or compliment.
Subject: Good news and celebration today!
Hi everyone
The client has officially (A) off on the extra programmers and the design. As expected, they chose the red design. I think we all feel it’s the best option, as it really (B) out.
There’s nothing like it online right now.
Congratulations everyone! I’d like to thank you all for (C) in such long hours. I know it hasn’t been easy.
We don’t want to (D) out on this opportunity to show Nick and his team what we are capable of. I know I can (E) on you to meet the deadlines. And you know you can call me if you ever need any support.
Let’s (F) off the next stage of the project with a glass of Prosecco at 4.30 p.m. today in the lounge.
See you there!
Lina