29 Try the constant-flick technique: your guy darts his tongue rapidly against your lady bits.

30 Flash him when he opens the car door for you. The Autumn 2011 ad for Agent Provocateur features actress Paz de la Huerta doing just this.

31 When he enters you on all fours, lie on your stomach. This way he can’t penetrate you too deeply.

32 Dig your nails into the underside of his butt cheeks as you perform oral on him— that area is extremely sensitive.

33 When he’s close but you’re not, Steven Lamm, MD, says to squeeze the head of his penis gently, which decreases sensation.

34 “There’s nothing wrong with a nice garter belt... i love that sometimes.” —Heidi Klum 35 Don’t get stuck in a kissing rut. Experiment with soft and sensual, rough and passionate, or plain tongue-led on different days.

36 Let the Game of Thrones inspire you to do the deed in a place where you might be caught.

37 When he’s going down on you, tell him to trace a hot message on your bits.

38 Have ‘comfort sex.’ Ian Kerner, PH.D., coined the term on his website, Good in Bed. “It’s like ordering takeout from your fave Chinese restaurant. There’s no need to ponder the menu, but the meal is always yummy.”

39 Have a naked pillow fight.

40 Get in the tub, and bring a cup of ice