4 WHICH FRIEND DO YOU ADMIRE MOST, AND EVEN ENVY A BIT?

“So many women struggle to figure out their goals,” says Meyers. “One way to tune in to your passions is to look at what about a friend’s life you’d like to steal.” Envy your pal who has a highpowered job where she gets awesome opportunities? You may be craving a more fulfilling career. But if you’re jealous of the girl who has a low-key gig that allows her lots of free time, you’re craving a work-life balance.

Start acting on her traits —say, never declining a project from your boss if you want a high-stakes career. Or if you love how your pal always has time for social stuff and work, look at things like her habit of running errands first thing in the morning so she won’t have to turn down invites in the evenings.