‘REJOICE, THE WORST IS OVER’

QDear Meera, I am totally shattered and depressed since many months. I feel like committing suicide. But when I look at my 8-yearold daughter, I drop the idea. My husband is cheating on me. I am trying to adjust, but somehow, I don’t seem to fit the standards set by my husband and my in-laws. My husband has been troublesome and has been kind neither towards my daughter nor me. Should I file for a divorce? Also, I am a housewife and presently, fully dependent on him for all my finances. Name: Smitha DOB: August 23, 1975

Dear Smitha,

Suicide is not a solution. Everyone in the world has his/her share of worries, happiness, and ups and downs. One needs to face the problem and find a solution, head on. Also, note a very important law of nature: whatever goes up comes down and vice versa. You are a very caring, loving and emotional person, and will always go all out for those in need. In the present scenario, you are being weighed down by grief.

Don’t be discouraged by this challenge. Indecisiveness is holding you back. Hence, you are feeling trapped.

The worst is over and this is the end of a difficult situation. Bright future and happy times await you after February 2017. Do not take any decision in haste; take time to review the details carefully. You will have a good relationship with your husband. He will become a devoted and a warm-hearted person in coming future. Be more brave, and expect less. He will support you, but in turn, he would want you to win over his parents with love. The writer is a tarot expert. You can mail your queries to Meera at selfdecoder@gmail.com