Deccan Chronicle

The unending war against men

- Toby Young

For the first time in its history, the American Psychologi­cal Associatio­n (APA) has issued guidelines for mental health profession­als working with men and boys. I cannot claim to have read the entire 30,000-word document, but I’ve got the gist: masculinit­y is a bad, bad thing. Traditiona­l male qualities like courage, self-reliance, competitiv­eness, stoicism, personal ambition and a love of adventure are “psychologi­cally harmful”. On the face of it, men and boys might appear to benefit from “patriarchy”, but in reality the emotional repression needed to maintain this “privilege” exacts a terrible toll.

If you’re in any doubt about the takeover of the American psychologi­cal profession by grievance studies professors, look no further than these guidelines. There’s scarcely a sentence that isn’t freighted with the ideology of the social justice left. Gender is “socially constructe­d” and “non-binary”; sex is “assigned at birth” rather than observed and recorded; “dominant masculinit­y” is historical­ly dependent on “the exclusion of men who are not white, heterosexu­al, cisgender, able-bodied and privileged”; psychologi­sts should learn about “the impact of racism and homophobia on the behaviour and mental health of boys and men” and “counter the damaging effects of microagres­sions”; on it goes.

Needless to say, this is about as “scientific” as the ravings of David Icke. The “unhealthy” male characteri­stics the APA believes are created by “gender stereotype­s”, such as a reluctance to spend hours talking about your feelings, are not foisted on men by white, heteronorm­ative society. Rather, they’re rooted in our biological nature. Contrary to the postmodern­ist dogma that the difference­s between men and women are “socially constructe­d”, men exhibit the same basic qualities regardless of what sort of society they’re brought up in. The psychologi­cal drives experts attribute to “Western culture”, such as territoria­l aggression, date back to the emergence of homo sapiens from the primeval forest. Indeed, many masculine traits are cross-species, too. When baby monkeys are given the option of playing with toys, the males choose trucks and the females pick dolls. The traditiona­l male characteri­stics these pseudoscie­ntists are objecting to are part of our ineradicab­le essence.

What does appear to be genuinely psychologi­cally harmful is this unending war on masculinit­y. The effect of telling men that their desire to protect and provide is “sexist”, as well as persuading women they’re better off without us, has been to unleash an epidemic of family breakdown. A whopping 25 per cent of American children are being raised by single mothers. No doubt the APA thinks boys who grow up without fathers are better off. After all, they’ve been spared exposure to noxious male role models. But the grim reality is they’re more likely to drop out of school, become alcohol and drug addicts and end up in the criminal justice system.

Meanwhile, the men who’ve been told that they’re no longer needed spend their lives playing video games, getting addicted to opioids and, in increasing numbers, committing suicide. The average life expectancy of American males last year was 76, down for the second year in a row. If the APA is looking for toxicity, it should start by examining itself.

By arrangemen­t with the Spectator

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