GET­TING MAR­RIED? DIS­CUSS THESE 3 THINGS

Hindustan Times (Gurugram) - City - - RELATIONSHIP -

We all look for­ward to our wed­ding, es­pe­cially af­ter we have seen all the grand and fancy mar­riages tak­ing place all around us and the fact that it’s a spe­cial day that we keep look­ing for­ward to. But be­fore you com­mit to each other you need to make sure you dis­cuss these things so that there are no mis­un­der­stand­ings later:

Fi­nances: This is a bit of a tricky sit­u­a­tion as it is al­ways a bit dif­fi­cult as to know how to ask the other per­son about their fi­nan­cial sta­tus. How­ever, it is ex­tremely im­por­tant to know about your part­ner’s fi­nan­cial sit­u­a­tion, since you will be shar­ing your home and ex­penses with them. Do they have debts? And loans? All these things need to be cleared be­fore­hand.

Fam­ily plan­ning: This is an ■ im­por­tant con­ver­sa­tion, es­pe­cially if one part­ner is keen on hav­ing chil­dren and the other is not. If both of you do want to have ba­bies then how many? When would you like to have a baby?

Lo­ca­tion: This is some­thing ■ that shall af­fect your life in a big way, so have this dis­cus­sion be­fore mar­riage as you might want to stay with your part­ner wher­ever he/ she is or make the de­ci­sion to stay near your fam­ily.

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