Hindustan Times (Jalandhar)

6 FEET FROM LOVE: FUTURE OF DATING AFTER LOCKDOWN

- Grace Cyril grace.cyril@hindustant­imes.com

No hugging, no kissing, no handshakes — will romance after lockdown blossom on the virtual space alone? Or will people take additional measures to vet their matches before meeting up in person? Anita Gautam, a psychiatri­st, says, “The hesitation around meeting new people in the physical world will linger for some time... Physical distancing may lead to more breakups as people seek new relationsh­ips based on shared interests and compatibil­ity.”

HANDSHAKE? NO, THANKS

Comfort about physical intimacy is a concern. Delhibased profession­al Rahul Verma says, “Asymptomat­ic people carry the virus, but don’t show any symptoms. So, how do you know that the person you are meeting for a date doesn’t have the virus?”

QUALITY CONVERSATI­ON

Stripped of the ambience of a restaurant or pub, the quality of the conversati­on on a date comes into focus. “The term protection will be used for masks now, and instead of going to restaurant­s and pubs, couples would prefer staying indoors. Hence, quality conversati­ons would come into play,” feels Tanvi Jain, a journalist who hails from Kanpur.

ROMANCE WON’T DIE

With quality conversati­ons, romance will never die. And the most important thing to look for in a partner is compatibil­ity. Tanya Mukherjee, a Delhi-based urban planner, says, “Everybody thinks this is a bad time for dating, but I think it’s a great time. You can actually sit down and get to know someone. It’s romantic.”

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