‘When I had less in life, my gestures were big and bold’

You do not shy away from working with newcomers, for instance, Nupur Sanon in this video. How is it to work with actors who might not have a lot of experience?

It’s a lot more rewarding. I will never forget the feelings I had and how I was treated when I was a newcomer. So now being the guy that can give a kind of confidence to anyone who has the passion to work in front of the camera can be a life changing experience. Just like no job is too big or too small, neither is an actor’s status to me. Working with Nupur was like a breath of fresh air. She was always eager to give another take, perfect her expressions, and spend time with the crew. Agreed that newcomers lack experience, but they compensate for it with their passion and hunger, so it balances out.

Any learning or special moments after working in the music video space?

This is my first music video and I agreed to be a part of it just because I wanted to, so you can guess that Filhall must be a very special song. After I said ‘yes’ to doing the video, these guys pulled off the production in less than a week. What I learned was that despite many budget constraints, the amount of large-heartedness they brought to the shoot was incredible! Khaira, the director, went out of the way to make it work within my schedule (given that I’m always busy doing something). Jaani, who wrote the song, is all heart and only heart, his life is only driven by emotions and that 100% reflects in his work. This tells you that when you want to do something from all your heart and soul, nothing can stop you.

Are you a romantic person who believes in making grand gestures or is it more like in little things? And now that we are talking about it, what’s the most romantic thing you have ever done?

You know, the strange thing is, when I had less in life, my gestures were big and bold, even scary at times, like getting married, the perfect rock, the big house, the fancy cars, all these things I did for my wife when I had less, which is when it means more .... What really matters now, is not how big or grand a gesture can be, at this age there’s nothing more important than time, support, care and effort. It’s not where you go on holidays, it’s your wife seeing you play with your kids...that she takes care of every minute when you’re at work, the attention you give her not in front of the cameras but at the surprise picnics in the garden, the weekend trekking, cycling in the Swiss mountains with the whole family, the secret sushi restaurant eat outs, holding hands in the park, buying books instead of gadgets, rushing home because there’s nowhere else you’d rather be. I don’t even consider myself a romantic, I am just considerate to my loved ones’ needs. I feel a man or woman should love their partner how their partner wants to be loved, not necessarily the way you think love should be, but the way they deserve to be loved, because someone deciding to share their life with you should be cherished every day of the week ....