Matching charts: Not everyone’s forte
Many people have a good married life even when their charts weren’t matched before. And for a few, it is miserable even after charts were carefully matched. If even after matching the charts, the results have been negative, then many tend to question the sanctity of the whole matching the charts tradition. So, I have done a research in this whole analogy for matching of charts and deduced a few things. Firstly, every marriage is not destined to doom. Secondly, any marriage can survive even in adverse circumstances. Thirdly, the whole concept of matching the chart is significantly flawed and ill-conceived. Applying the law of probability on marriages, there is a 50-50 chance for a marriage to survive, match the chart or not. But the surviving union may not be necessarily going great. There may be circumstances, like financial matters, family pressures, kids and many more, which compel the couple to stick together, and even the deceit has not pulled them apart. But these marriages are not regarded as great marriages as they are not themselves doing great, and if they have any offsprings, they set up wrong examples for them to grab. Now to match the charts is a matter of competence. For those who think that ‘Asthakoot Milan’ (that is available free of cost on many websites) and knowing whether anyone in the couple is manglik or not, is the complete matching by astrological standards then think again! This is just 20% of the matching and the rest 80% is left untouched due to ignorance. Many initiate the dialogue for marriage after they visit these websites and get convinced that the match is adequate and there are lot more who do not bother to go ahead as they think that the Asthkoot match is low or there is ‘Manglik or Kuja Dosha’. I want to clarify that the comprehensive ‘Kundli Milan’ is utmost required before finalising the marriage as it takes care of longevity, earnings, style of living and nature, malleability with in-laws, sexual compatibility, progeny, proneness to diseases and acceptability. In these changing times when both partners could have their independent desires and aspirations, it is indispensable to match the charts the Vedic way and for which very a few are competent. The horoscope has an embedded code for everything one aspires to do; it is the smartness of the one reading it to decode it for his client. The author is PHD scholar in astrology. To read more or connect with the author visit www.vinaybajrangi.com or call 9278665588 or 9278555588.
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