Hindustan Times ST (Mumbai)

Self-respect is important to succeed in life

- Sini Shaji

Developing a strong sense of selfrespec­t can help you fulfil your potential, develop healthy relationsh­ips, and make everyone around you see you as a person who is worthy of respect. If you want to respect yourself, then you have to accept yourself, and work on becoming the person you always wanted to be. Take steps to know how to feel happy with whom you are and make the world treat you as you deserve to be treated.

Get to know yourself. The more you understand about yourself, the more you’ll appreciate how unique you are, and the more you’ll respect yourself. Forgive yourself. If you want to respect yourself, then you have to be able to forgive yourself for things you’ve done in the past that you’re not proud of.

Work on building your confidence. Achieving self-respect is difficult if you’re not happy with who you are, how you look, or what you’re doing. Start by maintainin­g positive body language and good posture, smiling more, and thinking at least three good thoughts about yourself each hour.

Maintain a positive attitude. Even if things aren’t going your way, be confident about the fact that something good is bound to happen eventually. Cast aside your envy. Stop wishing you had what others have and work on achieving what you want. Learn to handle criticism. To truly have self-respect, you have to be aware of the person you really are. If someone gives you helpful and constructi­ve feedback, evaluate what they’re telling you. Don’t let others get to you. Though it may sound impossible, your sense of selfworth should come from yourself, not from the people around you.

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