‘I’m an insane and hopeless romantic’
I’m a 100% romantic at heart,” says Mrunal Thakur. Highly influenced by Bollywood love stories, love was a gossamer dream for the actor. On Valentine’s Day, she says that it’s the small things and gestures that count, her family being the true epitome of the emotion for her and not being a big believer in dating apps. Excerpts:
How would you define romantic love?
Romantic love is about being emotionally involved with someone, getting butterflies in my stomach and going weak on my knees when I see or think about that person. You know you’re in love when you have unconditional love for a person, your world revolves around him and you’ve a special emotional connection with him. When in love, one goes out of their way to do things for the people they love.
Are you a romantic at heart?
I’m an insane and hopeless romantic, who loves doing small things that someone would never expect. For example, I like leaving a note in someone’s wallet, booking a spa, ordering lots and lots of food, taking them out on surprise dinners and having crazy conversations. I love making a person blush harder and smile wider by sending texts where I compliment their smiles.
As a teenager, what was your definition of ideal love?
It was quite simple and sweet. I thought that the first person I would first kiss I’ll fall in love with.
Growing up, how much has Bollywood love stories influenced you personally?
They’ve taught me that love wins in the end. I loved Saathiya (2002) and how it shows a romantic, sweet and simple love story evolving in local trains. I also love Rehnaa Hai Terre Dil Mein (2001) and Hum Tum (2004). Bollywood made me fall in love with Switzerland.
What do you love the most about life?
I love the fact that I come back home to the people I love and who love me unconditionally. My family shows love through support. They understand me really well. They are around me when I need them the most. They inspire and motivate me every day and they make sure that I’ve a good, healthy meal when I’m home no matter how late it is. They are always there to check on me if I’m happy.
Do you remember your first date?
My first date was with my colleague-cum-best friend,
Madhu Raja, who was my co-actor in Kumkum Bhagya. She used to play my grandmother in the show. I went on a movie date with her. Thereafter, we went to a lovely restaurant called Soam close to Babulnath in Mumbai. We had a wonderful time.
How much do you think social media and dating apps changed the concept of ‘love’ today?
Love is still the same for everyone. It’s just the way of approaching someone that has changed. Technology, today, helps loved ones to stay connected. And that’s one of the reasons why longdistance relationships work. I, honestly, don’t believe in dating apps, but what I believe in is the fact that technology has helped people find the right partners.
I’m a romantic who loves doing small things that someone would never expect, like leaving a note in someone’s wallet or taking them out on surprise dinners. MRUNAL THAKUR, ACTOR