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ARE THEY THE ONE? GREEN FLAGS TO LOOK OUT FOR

Experts reveal signs in positive your that can relationsh­ip help you has long-term know if it potential

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It is no secret that making a relationsh­ip work requires effort and time from both sides. What people, however, often forget is that it also includes looking out for green flags, aka the early signs that a relationsh­ip is going well. Often, we get so caught up focussing only on the red flags, we end up ignoring the green flags.

Delhi-based clinical psychologi­st Dr Samriddhi Khatri notes down some green flags one can look for early in their relationsh­ip to understand oneself and their partners. Read on to know all about them:

They trust you According to Dr Khatri, trust is the most important green flag. Whether it is regarding your emotional or financial matters, issues related to their past or both of your families, trusting your partner is one of the most important green flags.

You have good physical compatibil­ity

“It is one of the most vital green flags to have sexual or physical compatibil­ity with your partner,” Dr Khatri says. It is essential that your partner understand­s your needs and apprehensi­ons.

They respect you

How your partner treats you and people around them tells a lot about them. Dr Khatri shares, “Respect between partners is another important green flag. If you and your partner handle arguments respectful­ly, it’s a green flag.”

They are open about various situations in life

Openness to discussion­s, change, new ideas, and different aspects of your lives tells a lot about your partner. Additional­ly, if they are open-minded about your religious and cultural beliefs, it’s also a green flag.

They are emotionall­y self-sufficient yet attached

“A green flag would be a partner who has worked on themselves, and can handle themselves. They should know how to be attached to you in a healthy manner without being overly dependent,” says Dr Khatri.

Krishna Priya Pallavi

LOOKING OUT FOR SIGNS THAT YOU’RE IN A RELATIONSH­IP WORTH NURTURING IS AS IMPORTANT AS RECOGNISIN­G RED FLAGS

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