My girlfriend spends too much
Should I tell my girlfriend that her spending habits bother me?
No harm talking about it. If she is an adult spending her own money, you have a right to your opinion, but she also has a right to do what she wants to do.
I have been in a relationship with a guy for 5 years. He lives in another city and we love each other a lot. Recently though, he took a loan on my name saying he would pay the EMIs. Now, when it’s time to pay, his behaviour has changed. He enjoys his life and stresses me out day and night. I am worried because I helped him out, but he now behaves like a hypocrite. I haven’t even mentioned this to my family. I am stuck and helpless. What should I do?
— Sonal H
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