THE ME IN “ME”
Well,
I would call you lucky if you have met your “Me IN ME”. I am still on my way though. We tend to keep ourselves limited in a sphere that defines us as to how people see us. Have you ever met your inner self? That would be a question which would come much after so the first one would be doing you like yourself or the person you are becoming?
I never felt the need to personally write it all down be it my thoughts, my recent life happenings because frankly speaking, I considered it a huge job so yes I am Lazy. It's not an overnight job to acknowledge your inner self so for starters it's all through Talking which is something I love from the core of my heart. Yes not everyone needs someone to pour out their heart to. Pour it out to yourself because at the end of the day you can be your own active listener rather than someone who won't judge you for your highs and lows, achievements, and failures. We all have our certain expectations from our life. Expectations from our Careers, Relationships and the most important from ourselves. Trust me when even one of the spheres in your life doesn’t go as expected it hits you badly. IT gives a slap you call “A SLAP FROM LIFE”, Well I call it that because I feel not all slaps give a physical jolt some hit you and shake you to the core.
I have lately experienced some slaps (No domestic violence)My parents love me if I may clear that out. Life slaps are what I am talking about. Things didn’t go as planned and I was forced to write it all down. So there is a thing about all of such unexpected experiences or shocks that life gives us we just shouldn’t take it as a Slap. Take that slap as a slow Clap which life offers you to find out something fruitful from any recent happening. Yes, it's an old saying that everything that happens happens for a reason I would be lying if I say that’s not the actual truth. All you need to find is the Reason so Dig deeper and get yourself a reason. A reason that brings in the positivity A reason that gives you hope
A reason that makes you strong
A reason that gives you fewer tears and more satisfaction for something not turning out the way you planned it to.
I found out my reason. I didn’t deserve it. See I believe we all know deep inside that we deserve it or not. If you deserved it and still didn’t get it then blame the situation by saying to yourself “They didn’t deserve me” because, in the end, you would obviously care about your happiness and your growth. Well, that is something which actually is important and that should be every what's app status “Only My Happiness Matters” of course not by making others Unhappy because that wouldn’t Last. One more secret. Just keep your intentions pure everything else just falls into place.
Born in 1996, Bhawya has studied at Sacred Heart Convent School, Chandigarh. She is a 24-year-old teacher by her academic Qualifications and is a firm believer in the fact that life has a lot to teach if we have a positive outlook towards it. She has her interests in the field of Dancing, Watching Movies, and is a classical dancer of Kathak as well. Her spare time is spent in writing and reading at a coffee shop. She feeds her addiction to multitasking by Talking on the phone while greeting someone. Her Instagram handle is @pichi_vasudeva