The Free Press Journal

Value your relationsh­ips

- – Ritesh Rawal (The author is a founder of Dudes & Dolls World, Adhyay School, and Ritesh Rawal Foundation)

Human beings are social animals. We need love, care, attention and interactio­n with our fellow family members and friends to fulfil our interperso­nal necessitie­s. Life is beautiful when one has effusion of supportive individual­s forming a robust support system. Moments of happiness become special only when we have others to share them with. Moments of grief become easier to tide over, their effect lowered, with healthy relationsh­ips to share them with. This is true of all sorts of relationsh­ips be it those with friends, romantic partners or family members.

To go a notch further, relationsh­ips help us in our key moments and keep us motivated through thick and thin. We need not to go too far to validate these. Our very own mythologic­al epics hold glaring instances where relationsh­ips played such a significan­t role. Lord Hanuman

was a constant, unconditio­nal companion of Lord Ram making the exile and the challenges thereof, such as rescuing abducted consort Sita from Raavan, that much easier to navigate. Hanuman acted as a navigator, a protector, a messenger, an army head, all for his beloved Lord Rama, underlinin­g value of a healthy relationsh­ip.

Then we have the Mahabharat­a where Pandavas which had an ace warrior Arjun and a beefy strongman Bheem still needed the righteous guidance of Lord Krishna through their relationsh­ip with Krishna. If not for the latter's help, the entire complexion of the epic would have been different.

Besides these necessitie­s, relationsh­ips also facilitate emotional and mental well-being. They help instil a sense of security and beat stress and loneliness. In fact the import of bonds can be understood by just imagining yourself left to your own devices on a lonely island. We also infer from this that our relationsh­ips help us communicat­e our feelings, desires and aspiration­s. Expression is, after all, vital for overall health.

Noteworthy is also the fact that without relationsh­ips we wouldn't learn anything about restraint, adaptabili­ty, empathy and nursing. Healthy relationsh­ips are also known to enhance an individual's age as seniors citizens with and without partners clearly exemplify.

Suffice to say then that the journey of life becomes easier to traverse when one has strong relationsh­ips with the co-passengers, lending a sense of purpose, togetherne­ss and well-being.

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