The Pioneer : 2019-02-11

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' ' ! + ; !" and continued to suffer quietly. Within a month of coming to stay with her in-laws, she became pregnant. At the same time, the oppression of in-laws also increased. Despite her pregnancy, she was not given enough food and two attempts were even made to kill her. Due to lack of communication, she was unable to tell her family about the tough time that she was facing. At the time of delivery, she managed to go to her mother’s house. A few days later Rajkumari gave birth to a daughter and named her Shanti which means peace as she felt that her daughter would bring peace and happiness to her life. The birth of a child is considered as the second birth of a mother, but it was a curse for Rajkumari as it was a daughter. Her husband and in-laws wanted a son and began to pressurise Rajkumari to kill the child. She was clearly told that she could only come to her in-laws house if she kills or gives up the child. She had to make a choice between living with her daughter and being able to return to her husband’s house. Despite being uneducated, Rajkumari did not see any difference between a son and a daughter. She can be considered much more intelligent than the thousands of educated parents who engage in female foeticide. When she refused to kill her daughter, her husband abandoned her forever. Forced to stay at her mother’s house, she also had the additional responsibility of bringing up her daughter on her own. She did not lose heart and decided that she would transform every weakness into her strength. She took up pottery and started working hard day and night. With the money that she earned, she not only raised her daughter but also started taking care of her old parents and younger brother. Despite or maybe because she was uneducated, she realised the importance of education. As a result, she spent most of her income on educating her daughter and younger brother. Today, her younger brother, who is employed as a teacher, gives all the credit to his sister. He says, “Whatever I am today is due to the hard work of my (elder sister), who always inspired me to study. Regardless of the weather, she went to distant markets to sell the pottery products so that there would be no shortfall in our studies”. On the other hand, her 20year-old daughter Shanti got married into a well-educated family. With pride in her voice she speaks about her mother, Rajkumari Devi, “My mother never allowed me to feel the absence of a father, nor did she deprive me of a good education because I am a daughter.” In fact, the life of Rajkumari Devi is not only contrary to books and stories of princesses but is also an example for society. It is a slap on the face of those who feel and think that daughters are a burden in their life. Despite being uneducated, Rajkumari Devi feels that daughters are not a curse, but are our pride. And she, herself, is one. )7)0 -#7) " - >;< %7 J ! = %% I t is said that if you have courage and determination, you can live your life according to your desires. Although there are many difficulties and obstacles in life, we must be ready to face challenges at every step. But the one who crosses them sets an example for the rest of the world. One such example is that of Rajkumari Devi from Akbarpur village of Rohtas district of Bihar. She was a child bride and then to add to her trauma, she was abandoned by her husband for giving birth to a girl. But Rajkumari Devi did not give up and raised the child with courage and determination. In a country where ambitious schemes such as Beti Bachao, Beti Padhao have been initiated to instill respect and security of daughters, ironically, in the 21st century, daughters are also considered a curse and a burden. On one hand our society worships Lakshmi, Durga and Mary and gives the examples of Mother Teresa’s service, Rani Laxmibai’s heroics, Razia Sultana’s high morale and takes pride in a daughter like Kalpana Chawla, but on the other hand, we cannot bear to hear the news of a daughter being born in our homes. It makes us feel humiliated. People even go to the extent of killing a child in the mother’s womb if they learn it is a girl. But there are also mothers like Rajkumari who consider their daughters to be their pride. Rajkumari was born to a poor potter and was the fourth of the five children. Due to lack of awareness about education in the house, she did not go to school. Though on one hand, while learning the domestic work well, under the guidance of her father and grandfather, she became skilled at making beautiful pottery. But suddenly, at the age of eight Rajkumari lost the power of sight in one eye. This incident not only changed her life, but also erased her real name from the memory of people who now started calling her (person who is blind in one eye). It was a shock for her poor family as they worried about Rajkumari’s future and also her marriage. With the passage of time, her condition did not improve and Rajkumari was married off at the age of 12 due to illiteracy and poverty. As she was blind, good matches were hard to come by. She was finally married to the disabled Lallu Prajapati, from Akori Nagla village of Dehri who had one weak hand. According to custom, on turning 15, Rajkumari was sent to ! ! 9 9 9 >6)8 - A ;< ;< > > O ne of the greatest contributions of India the world is which is considered to be one of the first revelations from God. The spiritual philosophy and management lessons in the holy book were brought to light by the efforts of many Indian saints. They call holy the essence of Vedic Literature and a guide to practical life. Undoubtedly, the book is full of wisdom par excellence but one misses its real meaning if one doesn’t know to whom does the word in the book refer to. The collection of divine words say it in very clear terms that these are the utterings of God himself ( It is really an unparalleled and a great claim. No one else, delivering a discourse, has ever said that he, the speaker, is God. Hence he, who does not pay attention to these words of God, is really unlucky, for it is a divine invitation to receive God’s greatest gifts to make a fabulous fortune. He, who has made this pronouncement, is really the most beloved. It is He who is speaking to us in words and tone of endearment, affection and the purest sentiments of love. He whispers to us, “Wake up, my dear, come to me.” He also tells us, “I assure you that I will free you of all your sins done in utter ignorance or misunderstanding. Come and take refuge in me, surrender to me alone and I promise that I will liberate you.” He thus speaks to us as One who knows us intimately and since ages past loves us more than we love ourselves. Who is He and why does He love us so much and offers us so much? If we do not listen to Him, how will we know Him? If we do not know Him, how will we surrender to Him? And, if we do not surrender, what is our plan for salvation, purification or perfection? There have been many attempts by scholars and saints to solve the riddle of His identity and also of the time when the Gita was revealed. There are millions who have read the Gita or its translations. But all of them have only added to the confusion. They have tried their utmost to open the hard knot to untangle the thread of this spiritual knowledge but have failed miserably because their minds dwell on grammar or some particular “ism”, such as Vaishnavism or Vãda such as Advaitvãd. They have all overlooked God’s own assertion, “No one, not even the deities, know me truly as I am and what I am. So, no one can tell you the truth about me, the Creator, nor can they tell you of the world drama, for they themselves are caught up in the wheel of births and deaths. Therefore, I have to descend to reveal the truth. You listen to me. Free your mind of all that you have packed it with and let my light enter. You are vainly proud of your bookish knowledge or what you have learnt from humans. And yet you do not know even a tangible fraction of truth.” The knowledge that He gives is new. The words, used to express, might be old but their meaning is new, for the real meaning had been lost. Remember ! God’s dictionary and grammar are different from that of human beings because his wisdom is without any bias, without any touch of vices or without any limitation, imposed by body-consciousness, bondages and blemishes of caste, country, cult, creed or community. He is totally free and absolutely true and fair. His knowledge is not bounded by any cut-off mark of time or space. So, He alone can give knowledge in words and in manner which are best-suited. It is, therefore, the rarest of opportunity, that we have, of listening to His voice—the Master’s voice-that is so enchanting, so enthralling, so ennobling. This opportunity knocks at our door only once in the four ages. So what are you waiting for? Start listening to Him because it is at this time that Supreme himself is awakening humans from their deep ignorance and empowering them through knowledge and yoga to gain victory over negative tendencies. In this way He is preparing humans to open the gates of heaven. to Bhagwad Gita, Gita Bhagwan Bhagwan uvachya). didi Kaani stay with her in-laws. Like any other girl, she went to her marital house to start a new life with a lot of dreams. But she did not realise that this marriage would eclipse her life — blotting out all the good things. She found out that her husband was having an illicit relationship with another woman and her in-laws were aware of it. Not only this, the attitude of her husband and in-laws was brutal. They would beat her up without any reason. The uneducated and helpless Rajkumari accepted it as her destiny >;< + A 8 %7 HEALING ) Reduces swollen joints and morning stiffness in women suffering from rheumatoid arthritis. The disease is an autoimmune reaction, and the oil helps modulate the immune system. It helps to heal minor cuts and prevents formation of scars. RELIEVES FROM SKIN ALLERGIES Numerous studies have been conducted on people suffering from allergies and eczema and black seed oil relieved both allergies and eczema. Effective dosage depends from person to person as per body weight. Kalonji seeds are used in Middle East countries as a spice. They add it to pastries, dairy products, salads and other foods. 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