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Living Legend

Having her roots in Japan and heart in Indonesia, Dewi Sukarno lives a storied legacy one could only imagine. With a singular flair, she continues to make a difference in the lives of those around her

- By Edith Emeralda, Photograph­y by Wong Sim, Styling by Niel Dimitrij

When one mentioned Dewi Sukarno, the image of a Japanese beauty would instantly come to mind. The petite lady of charm once graced the history pages of Indonesia in the 1960s. She became the third wife of its first president after one fateful meeting with Sukarno in June 1959—the last decade within the life of one of the nations’ founding fathers. “President Sukarno’s top priority, as well as his second and third priorities, was the nation and Indonesian people. He devoted his life for the sake of the people,” Dewi said. “So I told people around me that I will be his best secretary, best assistant, best companion, and best comrade. I decided to devote all of myself to President Sukarno.” These happy years of her marriage were all captured in an autobiogra­phy published in 1974. The book also included stories from her early life in Japan until moments after the historic September 30 Movement in 1965.

In 2010, commemorat­ing her 70th birthday in

Japan, Dewi published more stories of her life from

1965 onwards to the time spent in France, New

York and after she came back to Japan. “I planned to publish these reminiscen­ces in Indonesia three years ago and had completed its manuscript together with the publishers at Kompas Gramedia,” she said. “We spent over a year working on it, but unfortunat­ely, the publicatio­n was forced to be on hold for one reason or another, which made me very, very disappoint­ed.”

Changing strategy, Dewi soon planned to publish it first in English for the world to come to know the truth through the book, especially surroundin­g the failed revolution in 1965 and the Supersemar Document in 1966. “I will also publish the book in Bahasa Indonesia in due time because the people need to know about these stories. It is also significan­t to correct false records about Indonesian history, and I feel that it is my mission to write and publish the facts and truth.”

However, there were some things moments in history she regretted and would like to revisit. “After President Sukarno had passed away in 1970, General Sabru said to me that he would like to meet. I went back to Indonesia, risking my life despite the political situation, but I did not meet General Sabru. Now, I regret not meeting him at that time; if I had, I could have heard a lot from him.” Since then, Dewi had spent some years in Switzerlan­d, followed by long-term stays in Paris and New York, before settling in Japan these days. Reflecting on her life experience­s, she has since learned to be a wiser woman who has grown stronger.

“To me, a strong woman is brave, confident in her way of life and proud of herself; she is influentia­l and respected by others. Regardless of her beauty, her feminine qualities are beautiful,” Dewi said. Particular to her was a charitable spirit who loved to help those in need. This calling to help others also

applied to Kartika, her daughter from the president, through the Kartika Sukarno Foundation to address health and education matters in Indonesia. Inspired by Margaret Thatcher and her decisivene­ss to put ideas into action, Dewi founded the Earth Aid Society.

Not only caring for nature, but the Society also promotes kinship beyond borders by donating to those in need. “Before the Covid-19 pandemic happened, I could hold up to five charity parties in a year to raise funds for the people in need, poor artists and musician, and animal protection groups.” Dewi would often directly deliver the donation and meet the people in need. Once, while delivering supplies from the Associatio­n of Aid and Relief Japan, she met the children of Rohingya refugee in Bangladesh.

She had visited Kashmir, Pakistan, after the 2005 earthquake and handed over 2,556 pieces of blankets and 3,500 sets of winter jackets to the Internatio­nal Red Crescent in Pakistan. In October the same year, Dewi donated 120 tonnes of rice to the Red Cross of the Democratic People’s Republic of Korea. At the time of the Great East Japan Earthquake in 2011,

Dewi came to the Tohoku region three times and went to 21 evacuation areas and animal protection centres to deliver essential supplies equivalent to ¥3,000,000. After the 2016 Kumamoto Earthquake, she visited hospitals, evacuation areas and nursing homes for the elderly and animal protection facilities with donated supplies worth ¥2,000,000.

Besides her charity, Dewi would also be busy with her television appearance­s, businesses and time with family and friends. “Whenever I am busy working, people around me would often ask, ‘Are you not tired?’” she said with a smile. “I usually reply by saying, ‘I love to be tired’, and surprise them.” Rarely sitting idle, she almost always had something to do to fill her day. “It is my nature: I do not waste time.” Working time aside, after a day’s hard work, she liked to enjoy some champagne while watching the TV on her comfy bed. Dewi’s ten dogs would all be joining her relaxation time, a luxury in such a busy life. “Women can become successful in doing their own business, and many of them are resilient and active. For myself, the rule of success is to have a high goal and make efforts for that; moreover, education to improve the living environmen­t is vital.”

By cultivatin­g herself well, Dewi would always be

ready when life comes knocking on her door with stories and surprises alike. “I had a lot of turning points in life because there are many possibilit­ies around us. Whether we realized if it is a good or great opportunit­y, everything is up to us to take according to our goals, purpose, or sense of mission in life,” Dewi said. “Success is when people admire and respect you, but, at the end of the day, happiness is all about a state of mind.”

Today, Dewi danced on as she entered the eighth decade of life surrounded by precious memories and a hopeful future. “In the 1960s, when I was with President Sukarno, I came upon Stefan Zweig’s book, Marie Antoinette: The Portrait of an Average Woman. There I learned that she did not choose happiness as a queen, but she had chosen happiness as a woman,” she said. “I, too, have made my choices and saw my name written in history.”

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With an interest in the arts, including painting and dancing, Dewi is a well-rounded talent

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