WHAT’S WRONG WITH THIS PICTURE?
Absolutely nothing! Yet our fashion industry has too often been guilty over the years of forgetting that women have boobs – and they need dressing. YOU’s fashion editor Sophie Dearden, size 34E, knows the problems all too well. And she has solutions…
Ihave a strong sense of my personal style. I know what I like and the ‘look’ I want to create. I also have massive boobs. It runs in the family: both my grandma and my mum (a 36GG) have a bigger bust.
My mum is incredibly glamorous. She’s busty and proud, and wears form-fitting, V-neck pieces. Covering up makes her feel frumpy and bigger. But when I was growing up, I noticed that people commented on her chest constantly. Positive or negative, it always came into conversation.
Now it happens to me, too.
I’m shocked at how many people feel the need to discuss my breasts, and the main culprits are often women. One of my favourite evening outfits is a chic tuxedo jacket buttoned up with nothing underneath. But there are always comments: ‘You’ve got them out’, ‘Wow, that’s busty’ and even, ‘Hello Sophie’s breasts’.
Last month, I was styling a photo shoot and wore a vest top underneath a big jumper. The set got really hot, so I took the jumper off. I thought nothing of it. But when I was chatting to the team and said, ‘Oh, I’m so excited for this photo shoot!’ someone responded, laughing, ‘Is that why you’ve got your tits out?’
I laughed along but was quite taken aback. I felt embarrassed.
Did I look inappropriate? Trashy? Then I thought – hang on, I don’t. I just have big boobs. If someone with a less ample bosom was to wear this vest top they wouldn’t expect any judgment.
It has been tricky to get to grips with my shape. I love chic, oversized clothing that hangs in that cool, effortless way. But it’s hard to achieve with big boobs and curves.
And designers often forget they are dressing women’s bodies, which come in all different shapes and sizes. So many tops and dresses are designed with small in-built cups – you try squeezing 34Es into those while maintaining your dignity.
As my job involves dressing a broad spectrum of bodies, I’ve learnt a lot about accepting my own. Working with celebrities and styling ‘real women’, I constantly see formidable females apologising for their large bust. I feel their pain, but also grow frustrated that they’ve been made to feel like this.
I’ve made peace with the fact my shape is different – but so is my style. I refuse to wear high-neck tops just to make other people feel comfortable.
I hate to sound clichéd, but if you’re confident in what you wear, you will look fabulous. So it’s time for a breast revolution. Let’s be busty and proud! (And yes, you can wear a tuxedo jacket – just size up and wear a low-cut body underneath.)