Psychic agony aunt and angel therapist

QUESTION

Linda Mooney is a leading angel therapy practitioner with fifteen years’ experience, trained and certified by Doreen Virtue an international expert in this field. Linda specialises in the healing aspect of angel therapy helping people to engage with their angels to find inner peace and healing. Email Linda at linda@ dailymail.ie or write to Linda Mooney, Irish Daily Mail, Third Floor, Embassy House, Dublin 4

Dear Linda, I am a mother of two young boys, and am also a nurse working many long and hard hours during this pandemic. My husband has become unemployed and lounges around the house all day refusing to participate in household duties - he says that’s a woman’s job. He is a good and loving father to our sons, however I have noticed big changes in his drinking patterns.

He gets aggressive and argumentative with me about the house saying he can’t stand being at home and seeing things deteriorate around our home. I am beginning to see another side to him and I am also beginning to realise that he takes me so much for granted. I fear our marriage may be on the rocks. Much gratitude for any help, H.

ANSWER

Dear H, My sincere thanks and appreciation for your contribution to society during these very strange times. It seems that, although unintentionally, your husband may resent the fact that you are still working, while through no fault of his own he has lost his job. It is certainly not unreasonable to expect more understanding and help now that your family circumstances have changed.

Having a heart-to-heart explaining that you are concerned about his aggressive manner through his recent drinking habits is of grave concern to you, and is affecting your marriage, is on the cards. There are also AA meetings available on Zoom to the partners and family of people effected by drinkers who can give professional advice and support. Reaching out and asking for professional help is a real sign of strength.

÷ FIRST CARD: FREEDOM

You may feel trapped right now by life conditions. By drawing this card, the angels ask you to realise that you are the only jail keeper that ever surfaces in your own life. Whenever you realise that you have the power to be free, freedom follows. Everything that you do in your life is by choice, and you are free to choose again.

Even prisoners are free to choose their thoughts so they they feel peace and happiness under any conditions.

The next time you begin a sentence with the words, “I have to ....”, please stop. Ask God and the angels to show you some loving alternatives.

÷ ADVICE/OBSTACLE: CHALLENGES

Other people around you hold different goals and values, and there’s disagreement as to how to proceed, along with a clash of wills. Success is still possible, but it takes great effort. This is a competitive situation. It will be necessary for everyone to try to understand one another’s viewpoint. There’s a need for clarity in order to come to a resolution.

÷ OUTCOME: FAIRNESS

Another definition for fairness is when all parties involved surrender their personal agendas in favour of the greatest good for the entirety of the group. When it comes to matters of disputes, the attacks are based on fears that you may not receive your share. Yet, attacks amplify the hurt and the pain that caused the dispute in the first place. Why not surrender your attachment to a specific outcome, and instead direct your holy will toward resolution?

Hold a firm vision of a peaceful outcome, and let the pieces fall into place.