Psychic agony aunt and angel therapist
QUESTION
Dear Linda, A very good friend is in a verbal abusive relationship and has recently confided in me. She is with her partner six years and I cannot believe she is tolerating what is happening. We have been friends for as long as I can remember, and I did show concern abut two years ago when all of a sudden she began losing interest in all the things we used to do together and not keeping arrangements we made. Her partner is very controlling and checks up on her whereabouts regularly. He puts her down every chance he gets, even in company and calls her dreadful names in private. I don’t know what to do to help. She says if I say anything it will make matters worse. Please advise, and thank you sincerely for any advice offered.
ANSWER
This is a very difficult situation. Firstly the fact that your friend has confided in you is a big plus on her account. So the important thing here is for her to feel she is being supported and listened to, and that she can trust you — as hard as it might be for you to understand that she tolerates this abuse, she
Linda Mooney is a leading angel therapy practitioner with fifteen years’ experience, trained and certified by Doreen Virtue an international expert in this field. Linda specialises in the healing aspect of angel therapy helping people to engage with their angels to find inner peace and healing. Email Linda at linda@dailymail.ie or write to Linda Mooney, Irish Daily Mail, Third Floor, Haddington House, Haddington Road, Dublin 4. needs understanding and support. While it is admirable for you to want to protect your friend, it is important for you to realise that she must learn her own life lessons to set her free in order to evolve on a spiritual level. As much as we love our friends and family we cannot due their journey for them all we can do is be there to support them.
■ FIRST CARD: COURAGE
Be courageous and stand up for your beliefs. In this situation, you need to act upon your convictions, even if others disagree. The angels are protecting you from harm, and guiding you to be a loving warrior of light. As you stand up for your beliefs, you’re a role model for others. This is an important form of spiritual teaching, in which your example gives others courage to also stand up for their principles.
■ ADVICE/OBSTACLE: CONSULT AN EXPERT
You’re venturing into an area where other people could assist you by offering new ideas and information, as well as the benefit of their experience. To attract the right expert to help you, affirm that a helpful, knowledgeable, experienced person with integrity is in your life right now, and this individual will help you (describe the situation you’d like assistance with). Say: ‘this person comes to me easily and naturally, without delay.’ When this person appears, know that they are divinely orchestrated. Don’t hesitate or feel guilty about asking for help. Instead, take notes and give thanks. Remember, it’s not a sign of weakness to ask for help. Many of earth’s most wonderful inventions came from team efforts. By working with informed individuals, you also develop the healthy habit of consulting your celestial guide more consistently.
■ OUTCOME: FIVE OF FIRE
You’re experiencing some challenges. Other people around you hold different goals and values, and disagreements as to how to proceed, along with a clash of wills. Success is is still possible, but it takes great effort. You may enjoy this type of challenge, or it may exhaust you. This is a competitive situation, It will be necessary for everyone to try to understand each other’s viewpoint. There’s a need for clarity, to come to a resolution.