YOU SAY

To the woman in her 20s who feels bad about bending the truth about her number of past lovers – don’t! (Dear Coleen, Jan 24) If a man doesn’t want to be lied to, then he shouldn’t ask how many men you’ve slept with! Anyway, it’s not what you did in the past that counts, it’s how you behave with your partner in the future. John Humphrey, Maidstone, Kent