Irish Daily Mirror

HOW DO I MOVE ON FROM EX-HUSBAND?

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Dear Coleen

My ex-husband and I have been divorced a year. We were hanging out and talking about getting back together, then his ex-fiancee told him she was getting divorced and wanted him back after 10 years apart and that she never stopped loving him.

He moved in with her a month after her divorce (in April), but I continued to see him until last month when he told me they’re planning to get married in November. I still love him and don’t know what to do or how to let him go.

Coleen says

I don’t think you have a choice – he’s getting married – you have to let him go. You don’t say why you got divorced, but something bad enough must have happened for the marriage to end.

He’s been playing the two of you and keeping his options open and now he’s made his choice, you’ve been dumped.

This guy doesn’t deserve your love. Why aren’t you thinking, “I’ve had a lucky escape” and “I deserve better than him”? As much as it hurts right now, hopefully this upcoming marriage will be what finally helps you to move on from him and create a good life for yourself. You deserve the opportunit­y to meet someone really great.

Just make sure that you don’t let him back into your life when he gets bored of his marriage.

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