SIOBHAN O’BRIEN ANSWERS ALL YOUR QUESTIONS

SISTER DEMANDS TO LIVE WITH US

She feels insulted. She feels she should be in our main house, with us, and doesn’t see why she should give us a penny as we both have good jobs.

My husband is kind — up to a point. But he’ll hit the roof if I tell him her demands.

SIOBHAN SAYS: Your sister needs to solve her own problems.

You’ve offered her a place to live, but if she doesn’t want it she can find somewhere else.

For the past six months, you and your husband have supported her. How much you earn has nothing to do with it.

You must consider the importance of your marriage and maintaining harmony.

If your sister is ungrateful and entitled, then she cannot be allowed to create friction.