How cancer spurs me to speak out
One of the consequences of “putting myself out there” by openly speaking and writing about prostate cancer and making the most of life is that opportunities have come my way that are so out of what would have been my comfort zone before. I never really liked being ‘on stage’ so to speak. But I only have myself to blame now – and over the last few years, the importance of speaking has outweighed my nervousness in making a mistake or looking a fool.
Over the last few weeks I’ve been live on BBC Breakfast TV, BBC and LBC radio, recorded several podcasts, written pieces for publication and continued presenting live to others about why early detection of prostate cancer is so important.
Most recently, I had the rare opportunity to talk in person at a Rotary Club gathering and it was a delight to be welcomed so warmly while speaking about my seven-year cancer journey.
Rotary clubs do amazing work for so many good causes and, while I am not a Rotarian, I have always appreciated what they do for others.
I am sure many of you will have seen their Santa sleighs up and down the country raising money at Xmas time.
After finishing my presentation, not only was I blown away by a significant amount they raised for Prostate Cancer UK but also by being awarded the great honour of being enrolled as a Paul Harris Fellow – presented to me by local president Harry Corben.
This is an award that goes to people who have done much for others. I guess somehow I humbly scraped in but it puts me in the company of the likes of US Presidents and astronauts.
Sadly on Monday, like you, I woke to the news James Michael Taylor, Gunther in Friends, had died of prostate cancer at just 59. As a Friends fan it breaks my heart but I have to use those sad thoughts to inspire me to keep going and, if possible, increase what I do so others will never have to worry about prostate cancer being a killer.
Perhaps if you like me are sometimes in fear of speaking out on something you believe in, you can find a reason to spur you on for the sake of others. Because we can all make a difference, if we dare.
Until next week, Kev