Cursed to not have a girlfriend

Dear Pastor, I am writing from Brampton, Canada. Greeting to you in the mighty name of Jesus, our sooncoming King! I’m 22 years old.

I am a very shy, loving, caring and slow-to-anger guy. The problem is that I’ve never had a girlfriend before. I’m addicted to girls, but I can’t seem to have any for myself.

I don’t feel loved by my family, but I know Jesus loves me anyway. He’s closer to the brokenhearted and those who are crushed in spirit. I’m low in spirit.

I’ve been to a spiritualist and I now know what is wrong. I was told the reason why I can’t get a girlfriend is because somebody cast a spell on me.

I am a Jamaican and have been living here for around seven years, and I’m severely lonely. I have no joy in this place.

Please advise me what to do and at the same time pray for me and my family. Stay strong and courageous in the Lord. And keep up the good work.

K.B., Dear K.B., I would suggest that you see a psychologist and stop wasting your money on these so-called ‘spiritualists’. I believe that what you were told is nonsense.

You have issues to be dealt with and a psychologist could help you. Probably you have low self-esteem and you lack confidence in yourself. A counsellor can help you, not religious nuts.

Most men who have problems in getting girlfriends are persons with deep-rooted problems. So get going. Call a psychologist today for an appointment.

Pastor.