My mom is trying to wreck my dad’s marriage

Dear Pastor, I am 24 and the last child for my mother. My mother has three other children.

I have two brothers and one sister. My brothers are married and my sister is living in the US. I live at home with my mother.

My brothers have the same father, but my sister and I have different fathers. My father is married, but he doesn’t have any children with his wife.

From the time I was growing up, I always heard my mother saying that he is the best man she has ever had. When I was 11, I caught my parents having sex.

He was married, but came to the house to give my mother money for me. I came into the house unexpectedly and saw him on my mother.

My father’s wife is not a Jamaican so every year she goes abroad and spends about three months with her relatives.

As soon as my father’s wife leaves, my mother goes to the house and sometimes she is there for days. She says she goes there to take care of him.

My mother could have got married, but she said she won’t as long as my Dear F.D. I don’t know why your mother would want your father to leave his wife. It seems to me that your father is a man of means and your mother is trying to get as much as she can from him.

She is a greedy woman. I don’t believe that your father is as naive as your mother thinks. He knows that she father is alive.

My father has a housekeeper, and she told me that when my father’s wife is not there, my mother tries to take over.

She sleeps in my father’s bed and she tells the housekeeper what to do and the housekeeper resents her. is there to get what she can.

If your father didn’t want her to come to his house, he would have stopped her long ago, but if they are having sex and she is meeting his sexual needs, he may be tolerating her for that very purpose. He knows that this relationship cannot last.

The housekeeper is upset because

My mother told her that she suspects that my father is having an affair with her because she is too close to him, and she doesn’t understand why he pays her so much money per week and he helps to send her children to school.

Pastor, I went to visit my father and of the role your mother is playing, but the housekeeper should just keep cool and do her work.

Your mother is accusing her of something she is unable to prove. However, as a grown daughter, you should be able to talk to your mother and tell her that whatever she sows, she will reap. from what I saw, I know that my mother wants him to leave his wife. The housekeeper told me that my mother is trying to ‘tie’ my father.

She told me that my mother says that if my father’s wife cared about him, she wouldn’t be away from him for three months each year.

The housekeeper used to clean his room, but my mother does that now. She even put her underwear under her pillow. Do you think that is right?

The housekeeper told me that if my mother doesn’t stop carrying news to him about her, she is going to tell his wife everything when she returns.

My mother is not working. My father is supporting her fully. She stays at my father’s place and watches television and talks on the phone all day.

Whenever I tell my mother that she should come home, she says that I am a young girl and that I don’t understand life. She doesn’t want me to come and sleep at my father’s house.

I have a boyfriend. My mother doesn’t want my boyfriend to stay with me, but it doesn’t bother her to be sleeping with my father.

F.D.

She should not stand in the way of the housekeeper and her children. If your father is willing to help them, it is up to him.

You should also tell her that it is wrong for her to try to destroy the relationship between your father and his wife.

Pastor