SHE IS A WICKED LIAR

Dear Pastor, I’m writing in regard to the letter titled ‘I have no luck with men’ that a 15-year-old girl wrote. She is wicked, Pastor.

I’m the guy she talks about and much of what she said isn’t true. My mom and my wife always tell me to be careful of females because they are very vindictive, and I finally understand.

I met her at a wedding at my workplace. I heard her crying and I started talking to her, when she said she felt like killing herself. I had her number and told her to text me when she felt like talking.

Pastor, I had no reason to tell this girl I had a family. I was just trying to be helpful. Now I regret knowing this girl. She even lied to me about her age.

She called me one night while I was going home from work and I had an accident. I told her I would call her back in the morning. I called my wife right away to let her know what had happened.

My phone woke me in the wee hours of the morning. This girl was calling my phone non-stop.

In the morning when my wife was bathing the baby and I was outside, this girl started calling again. My wife answered and she disrespected my wife and hung up.

I don’t know how she did it, but she had my photos each time I changed my WhatsApp profile pictures and she took screenshots of some really rude conversations, saying that I texted her, and sent them to my wife, which caused a big rift.

Pastor, I have never talked dirty to this girl before and I have never cheated on my wife in all the six years we have been together.

After my wife and I sorted out this issue, we recently had a bigger rift.

This girl and her friends attacked my wife while she had the baby in her arms. She came home furious and started packing her things.

She said I must go to my underage girl because no woman is going to kill her for me. I was so angry.

BLOCKED HER

I confronted this girl and she told me she hated my wife and wants to hurt her, so I blocked her.

A few days after, my boss called me to his office and told me that police came there to arrest me for being involved with a 15-year-old girl. I was so embarrassed. I told my boss everything.

He decided to give me a chance. I then found out this girl wanted to frame my wife, hoping I would leave her. wife believes that you have been cheating; and you are fighting to keep your relationship.

I do not know who is speaking the truth, but I hope that you would be able to convince your wife that you do not want your marriage to be destroyed and that you would do anything possible to save it.

I suggest that you make an appointment to see a family counsellor. If the things you are saying about

I confronted her again and she told me that she would mess me up if she can’t have me to herself.

My wife gave me back my ring. I feel like my world is falling apart. I’m feeling such rage towards this girl and if I see her, I don’t know what I would do.

As it is now, my wife doesn’t believe a word I say. I’ve never seen her look so hurt and cry so much.

I recently found out that doctors were trying to get her on antidepressants and she refused. I feel guilty. I know what’s happening is stressing her.

I went on my knees and apologised and begged her not to leave. How can I keep my family intact? I’m lost.

Desperate Husband this girl are true, then she probably needs psychiatric care.

Let me just quickly add that I will make myself available to see you and your wife at a day convenient for both of you. Please let me hear from you again.

Pastor