IN LOVE WITH MY LECTURER

Dear Pastor,

I am 18 years old and I read your column every day. I have one more year in college. I feel eager and, at the same time, nervous to go back to college because I am in love with one of my lecturers.

Nobody knows about our secret affair, but when I see him, I can’t take my eyes off him. I love him so much.

One day he told me that nothing could happen between us because he has a girlfriend and I am too young for him.

Pastor, I know I would make him happy because his so-called girlfriend is always abroad. I have never gone to his house.

He says that people would see me coming there and talk about it. Pastor, give me your advice. I am not going to leave him.

O.T.