Fiancé thinks my sister is sexy

Dear Pastor,

I really need your help. I wish not to be named. However, I am 28 years old and I am engaged to a 49-year-old man with whom I have two children.

We are planning to get married by the end of the year but right now I am not sure because this man seems to find my underage sister sexually attractive. I heard that he made a pass at her twice. I have asked him about it and he denied it. Then, the following day, he admitted to me that he did. I am really confused. I don’t know if

I should continue with the wedding or put it off.

Please help me.

Initial Withheld,

Dear Initial Withheld, Do not marry this man; I am putting it straight to you. It is a pity that you have two children by him. This man is very immoral and you need to try your very best to keep your underage sister away from him. He has no respect for you or for himself. Such a man should not be in your family. Warn your little sister to keep out of his way and not to take any gifts at all from him. What I suggest is you shouldn’t go any further in this relationship. Now that you know the type of man he is, you should end the relationship with him immediately.

Pastor