The Star (Jamaica)

Girlfriend scared of my ‘package’

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Dear pastor,

I am writing to you from the states. I read your column online. I have been dating a white girl for six months. This woman always has an excuse whenever I try to make love to her. I asked her what is her problem and she said looking at me, she is very nervous because of what I carry. She said that her friends told her that black men like me are not easy to handle.

I am 6’ 3”. I really like this girl. I was even thinking about marrying her, but now I do not know what to do, and I am not going to force her. I believe what she is telling me is just an excuse for not wanting to go to bed with me. She is a strange girl because I can get anything out of her, except sex.

She owns a nice apartment and she drives her own car. She makes more money than I do, and she doesn’t have children. She is 25 years old and I am 26. Both of us have gone to college. She says that she is still a virgin. No disrespect to you, pastor, but I told her that if she is confused about my size I will show it to her, but she said that may cause her to faint.

Please tell me what

I should do. I love this woman and I don’t want to lose her.

T.E

Dear T.E,

This young woman might have heard that black men are gifted, but that is not the reason why she has not gone to bed with you. Common sense would tell her that all black men do not have large penises. This young woman is not ready to have sex and as she indicated to you, she is still a virgin and she wants to be sure to keep her virginity until she is married.

You will be making a very big mistake if you were to try and force her to have sex with you. She might even report you to the police for rape, so I would say that if you really truly love this woman, keep the relationsh­ip going, and if she wants to go to bed with you, she will tell you. Both of you should plan your wedding and you will have the opportunit­y to take her virginity, but I warn you don’t try to force yourself on her, you may get into trouble.

Pastor

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