Disabled Indians use apps to find love, life tips
MUMBAI: Disabled Indians are finding love and tips for everyday life on mobile applications and chat groups, as technology helps level the field for a community that is often stigmatised and ignored.
A mobile matchmaking app for the disabled has facilitated at least half a dozen marriages since its launch, while a WhatsApp message group for women with prosthetic legs helps them navigate everyday challenges, be it relationships or shoes.
“At least two-thirds of disabled people are single, and not from choice. Dating and matchmaking sites are not inclusive, and there is a stigma around disabled people that they are resigned to being alone,” said Kalyani Khona, 24, founder of matchmaking app Inclov, short for “inclusive love”.
India is home to nearly 27 million disabled people. They are largely an invisible minority, with a lack of access to public transport and to spaces, such as restaurants and movie theatres.
Women are particularly at a disadvantage, often considered a burden by their families because they cannot marry easily.
Inclov, developed with money raised from crowdfunding, has about 19,000 registered users in India; men make up 80 per cent.
“We are aware that not everyone with a disability has access to a smartphone. Access for women is particularly limited. They are also more inhibited,” Khona said.
About 15 women, all with prosthetic legs, get together on a private shared space on WhatsApp to share their common experiences — talking about pregnancy, menstruation and also what footwear is practical, but also cute. It is set up by three women, who shared the same prosthetist. Reuters